A new alcohol addiction rehabilitation program, called Moderation Management (MM), is looking to challenge the standardized method of abstinence popularized by Alcoholics Anonymous. So far, it has the growing popularity and high success rates to back up its claims.


The program begins with 30 days of abstinence, followed by a slow reintroduction of alcohol, and eventually a plan to limit one’s intake: no more than 14 drinks a week for men, nine a week for women, and no drinking more than three or four days a week for either. This breaks down to roughly four drinks a night for men and three for women, the standard members use to track their drinks and moderate the amount they consume in a night out.

Moderation Management’s framework is based on organization director Michael Kern’s book Responsible Drinking. But the organization emphasizes that the program is flexible and assists people in finding their own path to success, as well as creating their own definition of success, according to the Guardian.

A key strength of the program is that members discuss the factors and situations that foster their problematic drinking habits. However, Moderation Management should not be considered therapy; there are no therapist in the room, and the moderator, a two-year MM “veteran,” gently redirects people from delving too deeply into their issues.

Moderation Management has been around since 1994, but it experienced a dark period from 2000 to 2012, tangled up in controversy over its founder, Audrey Kishline. But in the last few years, Moderation Management experienced a renaissance, strengthened by the launch of the US National Institute of Health’s Rethinking Drinking program. Additionally, a 2014 report from the Center for Disease Control helped MM’s cause by saying that “excessive drinking” is separate from alcohol dependency and also an important public health issue that is not being effectively addressed by current tools and programs.

“Historically, MM has been looked upon as enabling alcoholics, and then the tragedy with Audrey knocked us in the stomach and we really pulled back after that,” Kern told the Guardian. “Only now, in the last year and a half to two years, have we started to come out again. The notion of figuring out if you can moderate, rather than going straight to abstinence as step one of dealing with an alcohol problem, is pretty universal. I haven’t talked to every single person in AA, but I’m sure they’ve all tried moderation on their own. But before MM there was no book or guidelines or anything, so people would just go out and try moderation naively on their own, and without any support a lot of them would fail.”

Riding this momentum, Moderation Management added more in-person meetings (however, they’re all still non-mandatory) and last year, the organization launched a campaign around “Dryuary,” encouraging people to take the month of January off from drinking. The campaign was successful, and now they now plan to do it every year.

Kern’s work helping patients with moderation in a clinical setting has taken place for more than a decade and entails a formal therapeutic protocol, including a Breathalyzer and closely monitoring patients’ progress. Additionally, Kern successfully managed to get MM approved by California as a program for first-offender drunk drivers 15 years ago, according to the Guardian.

Kern and other Moderation Management members readily admit that for some, abstinence is the only way to overcome the issue of alcohol dependency. Instead, their goal is to show that the one-size-fits-all abstinence method is outdated and that their program provides a more manageable lifestyle for people who are at the beginning stages of risky drinking and don’t want to necessarily give up alcohol all together.

We’ll cheer to that.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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