We’re relaunching a GOOD online series, “People Are Awesome,” where we feature good people doing great things—and seek their advice, inspiration, and ideas. This week’s Awesome Person: Nykidra Robinson.


It’s easy to roll your eyes at idioms about “making lemonade,” or that “a window opens when a door closes.” But sometimes you meet someone like Nykidra Robinson, and the cliches start to hold water. For Robinson, losing her job last spring may have been the best thing that ever happened to her.

A lifelong resident of Baltimore (born in the county, lives in the city), she was working last year at an appointed position with the State of Maryland Housing Department. When her appointment ended and Robinson found herself jobless, she pursued a bold dream. With modest savings and a whole lot of chutzpah, she pivoted her boundless energy into Black Girls Vote, a group that involves Baltimore’s young black women in the political process.

“Last April I was watching the Baltimore riots on TV,” she says. “Obviously it was bad, but you couldn’t ignore all the energy these young people had. They were tired of business as usual. They were fearless. I wanted to channel that energy into something good.”

Black Girls Vote launched on Shirley Chisholm’s birthday; growth has been exponential and impressive. The first goal is simple—register new voters. As such, Robinson and crew stage pop-ups in unlikely places: nail salons, restaurants, big box stores. They’re even tailgating at a huge concert this weekend. Robinson says they want to empower everyone through voting. “We’ll find you inside a strip club, we’ll find you inside a church,” she says. “All women matter.”

Once she gets people registered, Robinson tries to educate them on the issues that affect their lives—jobs, crime, education. Black Girls Vote has virtually no budget (donate here!) but they have far-reaching dreams. Its founder is charming and relentless; she has every intention of taking Black Girls Vote across the nation. “Why stop here?” Robinson asks. And she earnestly wants to know.

Robinson graciously carved time out of her busy day to share some stories and advice with GOOD—as well as extending an offer to show this writer all of Baltimore’s best crab joints. (He’d be a fool to refuse.)

Who is your hero?

I have a couple. One is my mom because I saw the sacrifices she made, each and every day. It was not a healthy household for me and my siblings, but she always put us first. She was taking care of us before herself. Now she comes to all our events and supports what I do! I have to say my grandfather too. He only had a grade-school education, but he instilled in me that you can do whatever you set your mind to. He’s gone now, but he was my best friend.

What book most inspired you?

A book called Make It Happen, by Kevin Liles, the former president of Def Jam Records. He’s from Baltimore; the book tells the story of him going to intern at Def Jam at the age of 19, then rising up to become president a few years later. It’s just so great to read a success story like that, coming from here. You have to take advantage of the opportunities you’re presented with. That’s what he taught me. Kevin has become an actual mentor; he’s still helping guide my life.

What’s been the most inspiring news story from the last month?

That Kamala Harris is advancing towards the California Senate seat. I met her at the DNC in Colorado in 2008; what an inspiration! She was sharp, electrifying, poised—just a bad sister. It’s so important for our girls to see these opportunities to run for greatness.

What is the best piece of advice you’ve received?

“It’s nice to be important but more important to be nice.” My grandfather told me that. It’s like, I’m doing all these things, keeping busy, staying in the public eye. People have no idea that every day I’m crying over the honor it is to have this position. I never want to feel like I’m too important, bigger or better than anyone. I need to have humility.

How about the worst piece of advice?

That you’ll always have time later. Every day is so precious, and you don’t always have more time! Look at famous ballplayers and celebrities who were on top once, but don’t get the same fame and requests that they once did. I really don’t want to lose this moment. I just have to keep growing.

And what advice would you like to share with the world?

Trust God and your own process (whatever that god may be to you). It won’t steer you wrong. People said I was crazy when I talked about [Black Girls Vote]. Just look at us now! We’re going to change the world. I never say “Sky’s the limit.” The sky is just a starting point.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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