Reddit has been taking flack lately because some of its members have apparently used the site to encourage suicidal people to kill themselves. Stories like that make it easy to forget that anonymous crowds on the internet can often be used for good, too.


A month ago, Reddit user Sean O’Connor asked a favor of his fellow Redditors. O’Connor’s uncle, Scott Widak, is 47 years old and afflicted with Down syndrome and terminal liver disease. Wanting to make his uncle’s dwindling time as special as possible, O’Connor requested that the Reddit community do one simple thing: Send mail. “[My uncle] is currently bedridden and living out his last days at home with my 85-year-old grandmother,” O’Connor wrote. “One of his favorite things to do is open mail… anyone feel like sending him a letter or card?”

Within a few hours, hundreds of people had commented on O’Connor’s original post and were forwarding the P.O. Box address he’d included to their friends and colleagues. Soon after that, the mail started rolling in. Widak, who lives in Massachusetts, has received several hundred letters, gifts, and other pieces of encouragement (one person sent a Macho Man Randy Savage mask after O’Connor disclosed that his uncle loves the Macho Man). The mail has come from as far away as Sweden, Finland, Japan, and Australia, and more turns up daily. Even corporations have joined in the giving: Sony Music sent Widak 15 CDs and concert DVDs, most of which were by Widak’s favorite artist, Johnny Cash.

“The mail that’s arrived has all been extremely positive and thoughtful,” O’Connor told Mashable. “My family and I are amazed at how so many strangers could come together for a random act of kindness.”

If you’d like to send some mail to Widak, address it to Scott Widak (C/O Sherry Widak), PO Box 551, Norton, MA, 02766. Besides the Macho Man and Johnny Cash, Widak also likes to make art, so art supplies are a recommended gift.

Photo via Sean O’Connor

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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