Many of us watched last Friday as President Obama held a surprise press conference in which he addressed Trayvon Martin’s case and briefly touched on the issue of race in America. For some, the words he spoke were long overdue. For others, they fell on deaf ears—Obama’s rhetoric doesn’t match his policies or action.

A perfect example of this would be what took place earlier in the week, before the press conference. Obama hinted at nominating NYPD Commissioner Raymond Kelly to head the Department of Homeland Security. This is troublesome for the obvious reason. Kelly has been a long-time advocate and firm supporter of the stop and frisk policies used by NYPD to, among other things, get weapons off the streets. The problem is that these policies don’t produce the desired outcomes.


Since 2002, New Yorkers have been interrogated more than four million times and nearly nine out of 10 of those stopped and frisked have been innocent. Time and time again, black communities are overwhelmingly the targets of these practices. In fact, in 2011, African American males between the ages of 14 to 24-years-old were stopped 168,126 times while the population of black males in that age group is 158,406. In essence, NYPD stopped more young black men that year than the total number of young black men living in the city.

Raymond Kelly not only oversees this practice, he also strongly defends stop and frisk and has even said that African Americans are “understopped.”

During Obama’s speech, he highlighted the plight of young black boys in America by sharing their experiences of being on the receiving end of having car doors lock as they walk by and being followed through department stores. If we don’t want our young black men followed and profiled, we must say NO to the policies and people that encourage such actions.

Obama asked the world, how we can “bolster and reinforce our African American boys” and “give them the sense that their country cares about them?” You want African American boys to feel valued in America and know they are accepted? One way we can do that is by eliminating policies like NYPD’s stop and frisk which demonizes young black boys for the melanin in their skin. Another way we can do this is by refusing to nominate and appoint the individuals into office who have enforced and praised these racially motivated policies.

It is hypocritical to want to reduce, as Obama says, “the kind of mistrust that exists in the system”—all the while considering Raymond Kelly for the Department of Homeland Security when his policies perpetuate the same mistrust in the system that Obama says he wants to see diminished. It is also hypocritical to talk about combating the negative reinforcement of young black boys when they are negatively reinforced daily from the NYPD under the direction of Raymond Kelly.

Obama put the world on notice that young black boys do not feel validated here in America. Let’s not further invalidate them by appointing Raymond Kelly to the Department of Homeland Security. We cannot allow stop and frisk policies to go national. We have a chance to change the conversation—let’s rebuild and reaffirm young black boys. Let’s not only tell them that they are worth it, let’s show them with our actions. President Obama, I’m asking you to show them with your policies.

Click here to add telling Obama not to consider Ray Kelly for Homeland Security to your GOOD “to-do” list.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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