Beauty salons, in any part of the world, are not only sites of commerce—they’re also spaces of sisterhood. They provide women with intimate settings for socialization and bonding. In smaller towns and neighborhoods, the beauty salon may double as the proverbial watering hole: here, local gossip and news are exchanged as often as beauty tips. And in certain geographical contexts, the local salon can outstrip its original role as a medium for feminine beauty’s commercial ideals, even becoming a place where definitions of beauty are completely reworked.


In Pakistan, Musarat Misbah’s beauty salons employ survivors of acid attacks, women who have been permanently disfigured by corrosive chemicals thrown in their faces. This form of gendered violence is a manifestation of moral codes that impose sexist standards for behavior and modesty on women. The attackers are often people they know: husbands, fathers, brothers, and even mothers and mothers-in-law. It’s a practice that happens all over the world—last year, there were 21 documented cases in the U.K. alone—but in Pakistan and India, due to a weak judicial system, poorly enforced laws, and the cheap availability of acid, these attacks are particularly prevalent. Adrian Fisk photographed survivors of acid attacks and documented their stories in 2009, when he was based in South Asia as a photojournalist.

“You walk the alleyways of Lahore, or wherever, in Pakistan and you see, on occasion, women whose faces are terribly scared,” says Fisk.

Fisk visited Misbah’s salon, where he met Saira Liaqat. Liaqat’s husband attacked her after she refused to move out of her parents’ home while she was still attending school. Misbah’s salons began employing acid attack survivors like Liaqat 10 years ago, when they began a partnership with the Italian charity organization Smile Again. Working at the salon not only gives the women an opportunity to make their own living, but also helps pay for their medical treatment and rehabilitation. It’s not unusual for family or friends to shun survivors of acid attacks, as the scars bear reminders of the women’s supposed transgressions, and according to Fisk, many cannot or do not pursue action against the perpetrators.

[quote position=”full” is_quote=”true”]The act of destroying a woman’s face is not just about causing her physical pain—it’s about alienating her from society.[/quote]

“You have a male-driven society that is in control of so much, including the judiciary and the police. So very few of the perpetrators are brought to justice,” he says.

In a world where definitions of beauty and feminine worth remain steeped in chauvinism and superficial ideals, the act of destroying a woman’s face is not just about causing her physical pain—it’s about alienating her from society. Many acid attack survivors fear leaving the house with their faces uncovered. The beauty salons provide these women with an avenue to reenter society on their own terms. As acid attack survivors become more visible in everyday life, the public is forced to acknowledge their existence and the pain they’ve endured. Their visibility in the public eye is one of the first steps to enacting societal and institutional changes that could prevent further attacks.

Earlier this year, three acid attack survivors made news when they featured in a series of photos modeling clothes designed by a woman named Rupa, also an acid attack survivor. The images were not just advertisements; they were declarations of beauty. In attacking women’s faces, their assailants meant to destroy their lives and their relationships to society. But by projecting their faces to the world, survivors not only defy societal standards of beauty, but defy their attackers as well.

“Every acid attack survivor says they do not want to meet the attackers,” said Ritu, one of the models, to CNN. “But I want to meet the guy (who did this to me) and ask: ‘was it worth it?’”

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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