Last fall, Blair Souder was hiking through the Himalayas when he realized that something was missing. “People really don’t have a whole lot of stuff there,” Souder says. “But what really took me back was how connected and friendly people were.” Blair returned to the United States just in time for the Black Friday shopping rush, where “the energy was all about buying as much as possible,” he says. “People were knocking each other over to buy the cheapest DVD player.”


While people around the world are in need, consumer culture encourages Americans to invest in stuff they don’t even really want. So when it came time for Souder to make his own holiday wish list, he considered how he could shift that consumerist energy to a more productive place. “I had five wallets in my dresser,” Souder says. “I really didn’t need any more stuff.” So Souder began asking friends and family to forgo gifts in favor of a charitable donation that mattered to them, like a goat from Heifer International or emergency aid for earthquake victims.

This September, Souder invited everyone else to edit their holiday focus, too. Through a new digital tool called Shift My Gift, celebrators can sign up to encourage potential givers to fund charity instead of consumerism when marking their next wedding, birthday, or holiday. Once invited to Shift My Gift, givers can connect with nonprofit organizations like the National Wildlife Federation, The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, Heifer International, and The Hunger Project to make a tax-deductible donation in the recipient’s name. (Shift My Gift charges an additional $1.49 per donation to cover operating costs).

Souder hopes the network will help make a dent in holiday consumerism—starting with “the garbage alone that’s generated from packaging around Christmastime”—and reallocate resources to those who really need it. In return, givers and recipients will receive a boost in holiday cheer. Once Souder started shifting his gifts to charitable causes, parties took on “an entirely different vibe,” he says. “It felt really cool to be a part of this new movement.”

Photo via (cc) Flickr user cuttlefish

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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