Star Wars Kid Grows Up: A Story of Cyberbullying and the Culture of Memes
Few web videos can boast the popularity and viewership of the infamous “Star Wars Kid.” If you don’t know what video I’m talking about, take a look: [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPPj6viIBmU The story behind the video is less than entertaining. According to Motherboard, this was the kid’s fate after the immense popularity of the YouTube video: Ghyslain Raza—or…
The story behind the video is less than entertaining. According to Motherboard, this was the kid’s fate after the immense popularity of the YouTube video:
Ghyslain Raza—or to the internet, Star Wars Kid—didn’t feel famous, or funny. He felt harassed, the victim of the most visible bullying in history. Ghyslain dropped out of his Quebec high school, was diagnosed with depression, and checked into a psychiatric ward for children.
Ghyslain and his parents would later sue the families of the three classmates who leaked the video in 2003, for around $250,000. According to the lawsuit, which resulted in a settlement, “Ghyslain had to endure, and still endures today, harassment, and derision from his high-school mates and the public at large.”
Granted, the video itself is pointed enough, almost acting as a full-blown invitation for viewers to ridicule and to laugh at the unwitting teenager. But considering internet memes at large, facilitated by platforms like YouTube, Failblog, and 4chan, we begin to realize that maybe, much like the large bully back in elementary school, what goes online could potentially have profound psychological repercussions on its victims. The tendency to laugh at other people’s expense has transformed the mass-media superhighway into a breeding ground for large-scale schadenfreude.
For what it’s worth, Raza turned out all right. He is currently the president of the Patrimoine Trois-Rivières, a conservation society in his hometown of Trois-Rivières, and is pursuing a law degree at McGill University in Montreal. But his is a story of recovery and success, and perhaps doesn’t indicate the larger issue of cyber-bullying as a whole. Just remember: The next time you watch something online that seems to poke fun in spite of someone, you might be adding one page view to make that person’s life all the more miserable.
Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.
“A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”
His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.
Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.
So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”
The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.
Any chance your wife is pregnant?
ZZBC | Reddit
The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!
“The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”
Redditors responded with similar experiences.
Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.
realityisworse | Reddit
So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?
Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”
The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.
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While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.
When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.