Would you ever move to the suburbs? Why not? And what would make you change your mind?


For years, analysts have proclaimed that the era of the great American suburb is over. And the data has increasingly backed them up. “In 2011, for the first time in nearly a 100 years, the rate of urban population growth outpaced suburban growth, reversing a trend that held steady for every decade since the invention of the automobile,” as Fortune editor Leigh Gallagher, author of The End of the Suburbs, noted in a 2013 Time column.

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“In several metropolitan areas, building activity that was once concentrated in the suburban fringe has now shifted to what planners call the ‘urban core,’ while demand for large single-family homes that characterize our modern suburbs is dwindling. This isn’t just a result of the recession,” Gallagher cautioned. “Rather, the housing crisis of recent years has concealed something deeper and more profound happening to what we have come to know as American suburbia. Simply speaking, more and more Americans don’t want to live there anymore.”

Today, prospects for many American suburbs look dim. “In cities like New York, San Francisco, and Boston, prices are rising and homes are sold within days of listing,” according to a recent report in The Atlantic, while markets are souring, jobs are drying up, and young people are moving away from “suburban neighborhoods straight out of Mad Men” that are “no longer as in demand as they once were.” For typical younger adults, even tony parts of exurban towns can have a throwback feel—and not in a good way—with cookie-cutter mentalities and demographics, even where the homes themselves have the kind of authentic period character enjoyed by fans of artisanship.

At the root of these changes is something more powerful than changing tastes and preferences. If some of history’s better social theorists are to be believed, we can see in the ongoing “death” of the suburbs a clue as to how everyday American life puts growing pressure on so many of us to seek feelings of comfort and relevance in the big city. For the average hipster, it might seem painfully obvious to invoke something like Arcade Fire’s opus, “The Suburbs, to make a point about how insignificant and interchangeable those miles and miles of developments make people feel. But, it has been clear for well over a century that Americans are primed by competition and conformity alike to feel that way. Alexis de Tocqueville warned that, without strong civic or religious connectors, we’d be overwhelmed by an oppressive sense of meaningless isolation, folding up our hearts in an ever-smaller circle of friends and family. That’s what’s happening in the suburbs—and that’s why people are rushing to cities, where it’s usually much easier to get caught up in big, distinctive activities with people like you, no matter who you are or how you live.

Nevertheless, as America’s youthful urbanites will attest, cities can be lonely too, and the price you pay to try to avoid that sad, inward feeling can put a huge crimp in your budget and your freedom. Although it’s not easy to envision a huge new trend of people moving back to the burbs, if a new and inspiring way to access shared significant distinction was offered, it’s likely city life would feel less like a necessity and more like a choice to more young people.

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Turns out, there is a remarkable new vision of suburban life around the bend. That’s the secret story hiding in plain sight behind today’s nascent energy revolution. In his bid to transform Tesla into a global—if not galactic—energy company, Elon Musk surprised market watchers with dramatic designs for solar power production that were, ironically enough, also hiding in plain sight. “The solar roofs that Musk showed off were installed on houses on Universal Studio’s famous backlot, which recreates a suburban environment,” Business Insider recalled. “Musk has already said that it’s essential for the roof design to be beautiful, and the designs he touted were that, although it was odd to see a man who has revolutionized the automobile and, in his role as CEO of SpaceX, outlined a plan to colonize Mars slip into futuristic general contractor mode.”

Or is it? What could be more appealingly alien than a vision of suburbia that blasts away all the dispiriting vibes that have piled up around it over the past 25 years? Surely, solar roofs alone won’t do that. But Musk’s roofs are the access point to a new form of life, organized around an integrated, efficient, and highly adaptable mode of energy production and consumption—one that would allow young people, and especially young families, an unparalleled degree of effortless mobility around an affordable and capacious home base. In less time than you think, the American suburbs are very likely to become places remade with a sleek aesthetic that echoes today’s urban environments, but also explores possibilities beyond them: Suburban car culture, for instance, will be transformed by Tesla’s and other auto companies’ moves into self-driving zero-emissions vehicles, large and small. The suburbs are about to become a lot more glamorous, conscious, comfortable, and relevant.

Again, even that kind of 21st-century makeover isn’t enough on its own to wipe out people’s feelings of interchangeable insignificance. Then again, we’re probably just stuck with those anxieties, unless we work together to do something to ameliorate them. And as cool as today’s and tomorrow’s cities may be, there’s probably going to be fertile ground for that work in our future suburbs. Get ready for them to give us a fresh chance to hop off the cultural conveyor belt and into territory as new as the new urbanism used to be.

  • A bonobo’s make-believe tea party has scientists rethinking whether imagination belongs only to humans
    Photo credit: CanvaAn adorable baby bonobo.

    Childhood activities like playing house, superheroes and villains, the floor is lava, and the classic tea party all involve imagination. We create stories and worlds with rules and roles to play.

    Humans want to believe that our creativity and art make us unique. But a bonobo named Kanzi was part of research that has scientists wondering how different we really are. In three evolving experiments, Kanzi correctly identified pretend objects, demonstrating that he could understand and engage in make-believe situations.

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    Kanzi associates words and symbols with Sue Savage-Rumbaugh.
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    Kanzi has a make-believe tea party

    Researchers developed a simple setup using cups, a pitcher, and actions that began as real pouring and gradually shifted into pretend play. The first experiment used real liquids. The second had a combination of real and pretend liquids. The final scenario had no real liquids and relied entirely on imagination.

    The scientists used gestures and make-believe to see if Kanzi would react differently depending on what he was being shown. He didn’t react the same way in each setup. His responses showed he was paying attention to more than just the objects, but also to the way the situation was presented.

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    Kanzi participates in an indoor test.
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    Animals engaging in fantasy

    The experiment revealed that non-human animals can understand and follow along with imaginary situations.

    “[It] shows that animals are capable of understanding pretence in a controlled experimental setting, which hadn’t been done before,” Dr. Amalia Bastos, first author of the research from the University of St Andrews, told The Guardian.

    Scientists involved in the research are careful about how they describe it. They don’t treat it as proof that bonobos imagine things the same way humans do. Instead, they suggest that animals are capable of responding to situations where meaning is implied rather than directly shown.

    Why scientists care about pretend play

    Albert Einstein, one of the greatest scientific minds in history, is often credited with the idea that logic gets you from A to B, but imagination can take you everywhere. This study suggests that the more we learn about animals, the more it seems the difference between us may not be as great as we once thought.

    Developmental research credits early social and cognitive growth in human children to imagining situations that aren’t physically present. A 2024 meta-analysis found that make-believe is not just entertainment but also directly linked to social understanding and real-world interpretation.

    Researchers now describe animal play as more flexible than once believed. A 2025 study of ravens revealed that play included the manipulation of sticks, stones, and other items, suggesting social awareness and responsiveness to context rather than simple instinctive behavior.

    Play and imagination may be versatile behaviors no longer seen as uniquely human traits. A broader cognitive toolkit shared across multiple species suggests the gap between humans and animals may be smaller than it once seemed. Things we’ve long believed to be uniquely human may instead exist along a spectrum of abilities expressed in different ways.

  • People thought cats lay on laptops to get in the way. The real reason is surprisingly sweet. 
    Photo credit: CanvaA kitty decides when it's time to work.

    People who work from home with a cat nearby tend to recognize this moment well. The instant a laptop opens and a document appears on the screen, a cat arrives within seconds, claiming ownership of the keyboard.

    It can feel like an unwelcome interruption, yet veterinarians and animal behavior specialists have identified a common pattern among domestic cats. Cats often choose to sit on objects their owners are engaged with, particularly when those things are central to human attention or activity.

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    A cat with a little attitude on the computer.
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    Cats aren’t trying to be a nuisance

    The first, and probably most familiar, reason a cat jumps on you and the computer when you’re working is attention. Animal behavior experts at vet-reviewed sources like Catster explain that cats repeat behaviors that reliably get responses from their owners. Why work when you can play and look at me?

    Another commonly cited explanation is simple comfort. Laptops, keyboards, and similar devices radiate heat. Cats seek out these warm surfaces for napping. Daily Paws notes that warmth is one of the practical reasons cats may choose electronics over other available spaces in the home.

    And let’s face it, cats are naturally curious. They are highly responsive to human activity and tend to investigate objects their owners are focused on. The laptop, papers, and even a phone being scrolled at home become sources of fascination.

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    A white cat relaxes on a laptop.
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    The science behind cats lying on laptops

    Research suggests there is more behind this behavior than basic attention-seeking and curiosity. Physical contact with objects can shape how cats interact with their environment, especially with items frequently handled by humans. For cats, scent helps create and strengthen connections with their owners.

    “Cats are very possessive individuals,” Dr. David Sands, an expert in animal psychology, told BBC Science Focus. “For them, the more they can brush past you and deposit your scent, the better!”

    The laptop is not just a warm surface but also a shared space that already carries a lot of its owner’s presence.

    Research from the Tokyo University of Agriculture found that cats can differentiate between familiar and unfamiliar humans using smell alone. In everyday settings, this may explain why cats often spend time on items like clothing, beds, or computers that carry their owner’s scent. These objects are strongly associated with a favorite human.

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    A kitty on a laptop.
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    Cats want to be close to their owners

    These explanations point in a similar direction. What may seem like a deliberate effort to interrupt work is more likely the result of several well-intentioned feline behaviors. The family mouser is probably not plotting against your productivity.

    From seeking warmth and comfort to investigating the objects that hold our attention to interacting with surfaces carrying our familiar scents, cats have plenty of reasons to gravitate toward a laptop. These soft and cuddly family members adapt to the people and environments around them, even if that process occasionally lands them squarely on our keyboards.

  • How out‑of‑work fishermen saved the American Revolution
    Photo credit: wynnter/iStock via Getty Images Plus Ships like these played a vital role in the American Revolution.

    George Washington knew his forces could not win the American Revolutionary War without some measure of sea power. “It follows then as certain as that night succeeds the day,” he later wrote in a letter, “that without a decisive naval force we can do nothing definitive, and with it everything honorable and glorious.”

    The problem was that the American commander did not have a navy.

    As a professor of early American history, I have taught courses on the American Revolution for more than 20 years and have written two books on its maritime dimensions. Washington’s solution wouldn’t come from a French shipyard or a congressional committee. It would come from a group of angry, out-of-work New England fishermen.

    Supplying the army from the sea

    In 1775, American ground forces managed to lay siege to the British army in Boston, but Washington needed provisions and military stores to sustain pressure on this key commercial hub. Looking out across the Atlantic Ocean, he noticed supply ships arriving in droves from Great Britain – unescorted – to supply the British army in Boston with guns and ammunition.

    Unbeknownst to them, the British had already handed the American commander the ships and mariners he needed to capture those resources.

    The Sons of Liberty, a network of political activists, had angered the British government by resisting taxes and commercial regulations – from the 1765 Stamp Act, which taxed printed documents, to the 1773 Tea Act, which controlled what tea leaves made their way into North American cupboards.

    To punish rebels for their treason, Parliament passed the Restraining Act of 1775, banning New Englanders from fishing on the Atlantic Ocean. Overnight, thousands of skilled mariners – men who spent their lives wrestling 100-pound cod out of the freezing, storm-tossed North Atlantic – were out of a job. They weren’t just unemployed; they were furious. These fishermen left their work tools and ships behind, picked up weapons and joined the siege of Boston alongside American farmers.

    Ashley Bowen, who lived and worked in Marblehead, Massachusetts, the principal fishing port in America at the time, recorded in his journal on May 22, 1775, “the fishermen are enlisting quite quick.”

    A letter from a French diplomat to the foreign minister in Paris confirmed the news a couple of weeks later: “4,800 sailors seeing they were going to be deprived of their fishing rights, deserted their ships and joined their compatriots under arms.”

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    John Paul Jones, known as the Father of the American Navy, commanded sailors during the American Revolutionary War. Christine Kohler/iStock via Getty Images Plus

    Creating the first navy

    Washington, commissioned by Congress as commander in chief of all American armed forces in June 1775, saw an opportunity. He didn’t wait for Congress to build new frigates. Instead, he reached out to John Glover, a fish merchant from Marblehead and a commissioned officer under his command.

    Washington’s plan was simple: Take the sturdy, salt-stained schooners used for fishing and turn them into armed, seagoing predators.

    The first of these was Glover’s own fishing vessel and trade ship, Hannah. She wasn’t a formidable man-of-war but a 78-ton workhorse that spent summers at the Grand Banks and winters hauling rum and sugar from the Caribbean. Washington armed the trade ship with a few cannons, manned her with fishermen and sent her out to hijack British supply ships to help his army win the siege of Boston.

    Just two days after the Hannah was underway, her crew captured the Unity, a sloop loaded with naval stores and lumber, supplies sorely needed by British forces in Boston.

    Between August and October 1775, Washington outfitted a fleet of schooners at Congress’ expense to intercept British supply ships off the coast of New England. These vessels and crews, whose wages were paid by the American government, constituted what many historians consider America’s first navy. Washington reminded each captain that they sailed “at the Continental Expense.” These orders from Washington and the payments made by Congress made these ships official American warships, operating under the authority of what would become the federal government.

    These recruits didn’t need nautical training; they were seasoned seafarers who had battled rough waters and gale force winds. On Oct. 13, 1775, George Washington wrote to his brother, John Augustine Washington, that the fishermen were “soldiers … who have been bred to the sea.”

    In 1776, Washington informed the governor of Connecticut, who had asked to draft seamen from Washington’s regiments for his own naval expedition, that he could not spare any. “I must depend chiefly upon them for a successful opposition to the Enemy,” Washington explained.

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    An American navy ship defeats a British navy ship, 1779. Christine Kohler/iStock via Getty Images Plus

    Keeping the Revolution alive

    This fleet of converted fishing boats punched above its weight: In the early years of the war they captured 55 British vessels. One such prize, the Nancy, was transporting 2,000 muskets, 30 tons of musket balls and a massive 15-inch brass mortar – supplies the American army desperately needed for the war effort.

    Because the British navy was spread too thin, with too few warships available to police the Atlantic coastline, the armed fishing vessels were able to disrupt supply lines and keep the Revolution alive through its infancy. By the time the British realized the threat, the damage was done.

    On Feb. 26, 1776, just a few months after Washington launched his fleet, British Admiral Molyneux Shuldham wrote in a report to his superiors that his forces in Boston were low on everything from naval supplies to weapons. What little they could find had to be purchased “at the most extravagant prices.”

    The British government had not assigned military convoys to trans-Atlantic shipments at the start of the conflict in 1775. Now, Shuldham recommended arming the supply ships themselves, since valuable stores were being intercepted by rebels in small vessels, “however attentive our Officers to their Duty.”

    He concluded the report with an ominous note, explaining that he simply did not have the resources to do everything that was being asked of him – support the army, blockade rebel ports and protect British ships bound for Boston: “I must beg leave to observe to you the very few Ships I am provided with to enable Me to Co-operate with the Army, Cruize off the Ports of the Rebels to prevent their receiving Supplies, or protect those destined to this place from falling into their hands.”

    This article originally appeared on The Conversation. You can read it here.

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