Would you ever move to the suburbs? Why not? And what would make you change your mind?


For years, analysts have proclaimed that the era of the great American suburb is over. And the data has increasingly backed them up. “In 2011, for the first time in nearly a 100 years, the rate of urban population growth outpaced suburban growth, reversing a trend that held steady for every decade since the invention of the automobile,” as Fortune editor Leigh Gallagher, author of The End of the Suburbs, noted in a 2013 Time column.

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“In several metropolitan areas, building activity that was once concentrated in the suburban fringe has now shifted to what planners call the ‘urban core,’ while demand for large single-family homes that characterize our modern suburbs is dwindling. This isn’t just a result of the recession,” Gallagher cautioned. “Rather, the housing crisis of recent years has concealed something deeper and more profound happening to what we have come to know as American suburbia. Simply speaking, more and more Americans don’t want to live there anymore.”

Today, prospects for many American suburbs look dim. “In cities like New York, San Francisco, and Boston, prices are rising and homes are sold within days of listing,” according to a recent report in The Atlantic, while markets are souring, jobs are drying up, and young people are moving away from “suburban neighborhoods straight out of Mad Men” that are “no longer as in demand as they once were.” For typical younger adults, even tony parts of exurban towns can have a throwback feel—and not in a good way—with cookie-cutter mentalities and demographics, even where the homes themselves have the kind of authentic period character enjoyed by fans of artisanship.

At the root of these changes is something more powerful than changing tastes and preferences. If some of history’s better social theorists are to be believed, we can see in the ongoing “death” of the suburbs a clue as to how everyday American life puts growing pressure on so many of us to seek feelings of comfort and relevance in the big city. For the average hipster, it might seem painfully obvious to invoke something like Arcade Fire’s opus, “The Suburbs, to make a point about how insignificant and interchangeable those miles and miles of developments make people feel. But, it has been clear for well over a century that Americans are primed by competition and conformity alike to feel that way. Alexis de Tocqueville warned that, without strong civic or religious connectors, we’d be overwhelmed by an oppressive sense of meaningless isolation, folding up our hearts in an ever-smaller circle of friends and family. That’s what’s happening in the suburbs—and that’s why people are rushing to cities, where it’s usually much easier to get caught up in big, distinctive activities with people like you, no matter who you are or how you live.

Nevertheless, as America’s youthful urbanites will attest, cities can be lonely too, and the price you pay to try to avoid that sad, inward feeling can put a huge crimp in your budget and your freedom. Although it’s not easy to envision a huge new trend of people moving back to the burbs, if a new and inspiring way to access shared significant distinction was offered, it’s likely city life would feel less like a necessity and more like a choice to more young people.

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Turns out, there is a remarkable new vision of suburban life around the bend. That’s the secret story hiding in plain sight behind today’s nascent energy revolution. In his bid to transform Tesla into a global—if not galactic—energy company, Elon Musk surprised market watchers with dramatic designs for solar power production that were, ironically enough, also hiding in plain sight. “The solar roofs that Musk showed off were installed on houses on Universal Studio’s famous backlot, which recreates a suburban environment,” Business Insider recalled. “Musk has already said that it’s essential for the roof design to be beautiful, and the designs he touted were that, although it was odd to see a man who has revolutionized the automobile and, in his role as CEO of SpaceX, outlined a plan to colonize Mars slip into futuristic general contractor mode.”

Or is it? What could be more appealingly alien than a vision of suburbia that blasts away all the dispiriting vibes that have piled up around it over the past 25 years? Surely, solar roofs alone won’t do that. But Musk’s roofs are the access point to a new form of life, organized around an integrated, efficient, and highly adaptable mode of energy production and consumption—one that would allow young people, and especially young families, an unparalleled degree of effortless mobility around an affordable and capacious home base. In less time than you think, the American suburbs are very likely to become places remade with a sleek aesthetic that echoes today’s urban environments, but also explores possibilities beyond them: Suburban car culture, for instance, will be transformed by Tesla’s and other auto companies’ moves into self-driving zero-emissions vehicles, large and small. The suburbs are about to become a lot more glamorous, conscious, comfortable, and relevant.

Again, even that kind of 21st-century makeover isn’t enough on its own to wipe out people’s feelings of interchangeable insignificance. Then again, we’re probably just stuck with those anxieties, unless we work together to do something to ameliorate them. And as cool as today’s and tomorrow’s cities may be, there’s probably going to be fertile ground for that work in our future suburbs. Get ready for them to give us a fresh chance to hop off the cultural conveyor belt and into territory as new as the new urbanism used to be.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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