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There’s just no getting around it—internships are a painful rite of passage. I should know. I’ve been through it four times.


I told myself I was there to keep my résumé robust, build a creative portfolio and amass a list of contacts. But every time I reassured myself, “Hopefully it will lead to something,” one nagging question followed: “What if it doesn’t?”

Internships are pretty sweet deals for employers, especially during a recession that’s forced them to lay off thousands of workers. They get to cull from a pile of résumés from increasingly qualified and well-rounded students and graduates (some of whom have done internships since high school) to choose interns to come work at their company for free for two, four, or six months. Where interns may have once been confined to the coffeemaker, post-grad interns may now find themselves overworked, doing tasks that cost-cutting companies once had hired employees to do.

Of course, unpaid internships are technically illegal, but pointing this out to your employer at an interview probably won’t land you the gig. So how do you know whether the company in question cares about treating their interns well? I’ve learned how to separate the learning experiences from the nightmares after being through the ringer multiple times (including at the GOOD offices in L.A., which, I assure you, was a humane experience). Here are some rules to getting through an internship alive—and being able to tell whether it’s worth it.

Define what’s in it for you. Let’s be real: Getting hired directly after an internship stint is the exception, not the rule. While it’s certainly prudent to ask your employer during your interview if this is a possibility, it shouldn’t be your main motivation for drudging out four months in an office where you’re filing papers and going to FedEx.

Think about your day-to-day tasks. Are you creating content that can be part of your portfolio? Are you meeting qualified people with whom you can keep in touch? Are you learning to use programs—like Photoshop, Google Analytics, or blogging platforms—that are marketable skills? The oversaturation of interns out there has made that extra résumé line less valuable. You need to define how this experience is going to build your professional know-how.

One friend of mine, who now works in marketing in San Francisco, said that after spending a summer at what seemed like the perfect internship, he realized it was kind of a waste.

“I didn’t apply myself outside of my comfort zone and job duties, which were simple, mundane and trivial (bitch work),” he says. “The company saw me as someone that could do something for them and [didn’t teach the] skills I needed to learn … In the end, I learned very little and realized you get what you put into it.”

Pick your employer’s brain. If the internship is a good fit, it’s likely that your bosses and supervisors currently have the job that you covet. Don’t simply admire from a distance. Take the opportunity to grill them with questions. What was their first job in the industry? What are the pros and cons of their profession? Do they have any contacts that might be useful for you?

These people are insanely busy, but this shouldn’t intimidate you. Shoot them an email asking to schedule a time to sit down for coffee. Remember, they’re are getting a lot from you, so you should be getting more than a résumé bullet point in return. One editor of mine sat down with me multiple times during a four-month stint at a magazine, and the wisdom and insight I gained from our talks was the most useful part of the experience.

Don’t take abuse. Ok, you’re an intern. Yes, that means you’ll be doing dignity-reducing work. (Some things I’ve done as an intern: entering endless figures on a spreadsheet, cleaning out a back storage room, dropping off boxes at an event, and fetching a pair of shoes for an editor.) But if this is all you’re doing, you should reconsider whether the experience is worth it.

And if you’re expected to do an unreasonable amount of work, even if it’s not menial, that counts as abuse as well. If multiple supervisors are giving you projects and tasks without coordinating with each other first, don’t feel like you have to do it all. Just because you’re an intern doesn’t mean you have the superhuman ability to pack 14 hours of work into eight. Besides, if you miss a deadline because you have too much work, what are they going to do—fire you?

Politely ask your main supervisor how they would like you to prioritize—“I don’t think I’m going to be able to complete XYZ in the two days a week I’m here, so which would you like me to work on first?” I’ve often found the boss doesn’t know that all the employees are asking things of you, and he may be appreciative that you let him know and respect you more for speaking up.

Be up front: You have a job, too. Unpaid internships are often characterized as a privilege of the middle-class elite, held by people whose parents are willing to foot the bill of living expenses. It’s possible to work a paying job while interning, but you should make it very clear to your employer that this is your plan.

If your employer says the hours are 9 am to 5 pm and you have to leave at 4:15 to get to restaurant gig a few days a week, they should be understanding. “I’m really happy to be here, but the only way I can make it work financially is if I leave early a few days a week,” is a nice way to put it. Don’t apologize. Everyone has to make money.

The main compensation of an internship should be practical knowledge and skills. If that’s not a major part of the equation, it’s probably not worth it. A fellow intern I worked with said it best:

“Looking back before these internships, I realize I had no freaking clue what it was all about,” he says. “So, I might not be employed yet, but I’m at least a little smarter, and these days I’m not sure if you can ask for a hell of a lot more than that.”

Illustration by Andres Guzman

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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