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“How many of you have purchased condoms in the last week? Raise your hand.” I asked this to an auditorium full of brand new graduate students. Suddenly, everyone woke up and the room was filled with nervous energy and intermittent chuckles.


It was the new cohort’s first day of school, and as a second-year student, I was presenting what I’d spent my summer working on after completing a year in our Design For Social Innovation program at SVA.

In Design For Social Innovation, we are taught that the design process starts with getting to know a culture well enough to develop key insights: those core truths that can be opportunistically leveraged to help solve a problem. I’d spent that summer becoming very familiar with American women’s attitudes about safe sex, and how those attitudes influence their sexual health.

I proceeded to tell the class about how my discoveries had inspired me to start a social enterprise called Lovability Condoms, after developing two key insights:

Condoms aren’t a part of positive conversations.

Modern media has encouraged women to openly express their sexuality in many positive ways. In general, women have become quite accustomed to explicitly sexual content. However, sexual safety remains a hyper-clinical or menacing subject that is preferably avoided. Nonetheless, 30 percent of American girls will get pregnant before the age of 20. Also, according to the CDC, one in every four sexually active adolescent females has an STD…and these numbers are predicted to exponentially rise.

Condoms are stigmatized.

Women often feel uncomfortable associating with condoms because of the macho/dominant or hyper sexualized stereotypes that are linked with them. These negative attitudes have prevented women being prepared with condoms. According to a research study conducted at UCLA, if more women were prepared with condoms, rates of STD contraction and unplanned pregnancy would decrease substantially.

So, we’re overhauling the long-standing cultural barriers and stereotypes that prevent women from being prepared with condoms. My first step was redesigning the packaging, distribution model, and messaging for this product so that the entire process of purchasing, carrying, and providing condoms fits seamlessly into a woman’s lifestyle.

As I worked tirelessly to scale my company, something phenomenal happened though. I started receiving countless emails and calls from women expressing their die-hard passion for my mission of improving women’s relationship with condoms and empowering others to take responsibility for their sexual health. Women wrote pages documenting how their discomfort with condoms had negatively affected them and their loved ones’ lives. They wanted to help others and be a part of “the movement” to de-stigmatize condoms. This new insight that women wanted to get actively involved had great influence over my design process.

Particularly, it resulted in transforming Lovability from a product…to a movement. I set out to redesign everything with the intention of empowering all women to play a significant role in our shared mission.

Firstly, I developed a program so that women could become “Lovability Ladies” and essentially take on a brand advocate and merchandiser role. These women have the opportunity to sell Lovability Condoms in their local community and spread the celebratory message that practicing safe sex is one of the most powerful forms of self-love. We’ve also given sororities and nonprofits the opportunity to do this on a larger-scale and donate the profits to philanthropies.

To complement the condom brand and Lovability Lady program, I launched the LovabilityMovement.com, which serves as a social hub for all women to express and practice holistic self-love. We are highlighting women who practice self-love in all ways, as well as promoting and celebrating women who openly share the way that safe sex practices have helped them lead a healthy life. Through the website, we also amplify the voices of Lovability Lady merchandisers who share their personal experiences as they spread the Lovability Condoms mission and message. This way, women who are indirectly involved can celebrate, support and interact with the women who are taking a very pro-active role in de-stigmatizing this product.

Since the day I introduced my summer’s work in DSI’s auditorium, Lovability has transformed into so much more than a condom brand. This is because in SVA’s Design For Social Innovation program, we are taught to continually listen for insights. Social issues and user needs are constantly evolving, and our job is to be attuned to those changes and design solutions accordingly.

Now, Lovability is a community open to all women who understand the value of safe sex practices and want to encourage others to do the same. Together, we will co-create whatever else is needed to bring safe sex into a positive context and empower all women to take responsibility for their sexual health.

Join the movement at www.TheLovabilityMovement.com to get involved.

Learn more about Lovability Condoms and The Lovability Lady program at www.LovabilityCondoms.com.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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