Any waitress worth a 10 percent tip knows there’s a simple way to maximize the utility of a low-paying restaurant job: Befriend the guys in the kitchen.


That’s precisely how I met Angelo, a cook at a Vietnamese fusion pop-up restaurant where I briefly worked in London last summer. If I asked nicely, Angelo would gladly oblige my requests for duck and pear salads or prawn summer rolls each night after the kitchen closed.
As I sprayed lemon-scented cleaner on the greasy stainless steel partition that separated us, Angelo and I would chat about his wife, with whom he moved over to the UK from Brazil, and his son, who was five years old and developing a British accent. He told me that on weekdays, after mopping the floor at the restaurant, he would leave to mop the floors and empty the trash bins as a night janitor at a school in south London. Then he would arrive home, around the time his son woke up, and take him to school before getting some sleep. In the morning, it would start all over again.
There was always a physical barrier between Angelo and I during our conversations, which required me to duck below the metal hood each time he wanted to show me a picture on his iPhone or tell me a joke. But the more I got to know him, the more I noticed a more fundamental barrier that separated us, one that persisted despite the fact that we worked at the same restaurant.
Much has been written about the phenomenon of University graduates seeking hourly or low wage work in a dismal job market. I have, on more than one occasion, complained about the difficulty of earning a living as a writer in the rather unstable world of publishing. But ultimately, my stints doing low wage work are due to in large part to my own choices. In pursuit of a career I want, I’ve decided to eschew the office jobs that my university degree would, in theory, qualify me for.
However Angelo, and countless others like him who work ‘BOH’—back of house, in restaurant speak— don’t have that choice. Collectively they form a service workforce that’s as marginalized as it is invisible and many like Angelo, are forced to work more than one full time job to make ends meet.
The modern fascination with shows like Downton Abbey, which premiers its third season today, stems from a time when people were born into a rigidly defined class and social structures where people largely accepted their place in society. At the estate of Lord Crawley, two separate worlds—the socialites upstairs and the servants downstairs—run in close proximity to each other, yet their plot lines and challenges are largely independent of each other.
While it may seem as though that time of class separation has passed, for many workers—the ones who are employed to clean up after us, and prepare our food, and scrub our toilets—that parallel existence still persists. Last month provided a good example of that, when a letter signed by 60 janitorial workers was left on the desk of UK Work and Pensions Secretary Iain Duncan Smith asking for a pay raise. The bold move on behalf of one cleaner to leave the letter anonymously resulted in a subsequent meeting, where the Department of Work and Pensions agreed to begin paying 500 Whitehall cleaning and catering staff London’s Living Wage of £8.55, up from a minimum wage of £6.19.
That a wage so low would render it exceedingly difficult to live in the city of London—where a single underground fare at peak hour can cost £3.60—is obvious. That a government minister needed the person who empties his bin to point that out to him is indicative of the disconnect we have with the service workforce, one that’s not all that different from the days of Downton Abbey.
To be sure, those lucky enough to have graduated college in the past 5 years or so have been hit hard by the recession. However those same people would be well served by remembering that the ability to view a service job as a temporary means to an end is, in fact, a privilege and its one that people like Angelo don’t have.
We’re challenging the GOOD community to commit our time to service. Go here to pledge 1 percent of your time—that’s 20 hours—being part of the solution this year.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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