In the summer of 1994, my family planned a road trip from Houston to Washington, D.C. My parents highlighted the route on a map and I remember my mom asking me if I wanted to take the scenic route. My answer was yes.


The trip took us through several state lines, something I took pride in, but deep down, I knew I wasn’t the well-traveled 5th-grade explorer I made myself out to be—I had only driven through the different states, after all, and in the back seat, no less. But it’s probably why I started wanting to explore more.

When I finally got my own car, I’d find new routes home, no matter how inefficient, because I wanted to see what the other roads looked like. In college, I began exploring the campus and found my way into buildings under construction, rooms with unexplained pianos, secret tunnels, and rooftops of several buildings where I’d have to explain to administrators that I wasn’t jumping, just exploring.

These explorations weren’t destination-focused; I was wondering more than I was wandering. I just wanted to get lost, experience something new and come back with a little more knowledge and perspective, no matter where.

In December 2012, I got an email offering cheap flights to Portland, Maine. This email couldn’t have come at better time. I had just finished freelancing at a New York ad agency where I worked days, nights, and weekends, and a $60 flight seemed like a great price to step out of a gridded city and get lost again.

I stayed on a boat with a couple who gave me pointers about Portland, places I should eat and they even told me about their travels along the Atlantic coast of America. It didn’t hit me until I left, but this couple could have lived anywhere—they live in an RV-of-the-sea—but they chose to call Maine their home. I’d recently designed a poster about my own home state—Texas—listing the things that I’d missed about it in the shape of the state. After I made it, others reached out to me, asking me to make versions for their own home states.

As I sat in Maine, I decided to start a new project: I’d explore the country, talk to different locals and find out what makes them call their state “home.”

This will give me a chance to talk to people face-to-face, gain some perspective, and give the people a poster they’d be proud of, and maybe even inspire other 5th graders to explore the country themselves someday. Or at least give 5th-grade me a high-five and say, “You did it, man.”

Please visit my Kickstarter to learn more and help fund the project.

Images courtesy of Nathan Hoang.

This project will be featured in GOOD’s Saturday series Push for Good—our guide to crowdfunding creative progress.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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