Black Friday is nigh, and with it the annual ritual of big savings, big crowds, and the inevitable “tsk tsk tsk”-ing over footage of the latter clobbering one another to get to the former. What once was the simple start of the holiday shopping season has mutated into a bacchanal of consumer confidence in which 20, 30, or 40 percent off becomes a rallying cry for throngs of deal-hungry shoppers, ready to risk life and limb to get their hands on the best discounts of the year.


If it all feels a little too frenzied, a little too hectic and corporate and product-driven for your liking, you’re not alone. In the U.K. a growing number of bookstores have devised an antidote to the hurried rush of Black Friday: “Civilised Saturday”: an opportunity to slow down, sip some wine, and—what else?—read a book.

Created by the Booksellers Association of the United Kingdom and Ireland, “Civilised Saturday is,” they explain on their website, “intended as a restorative to Black Friday, the now-traditional retail scrum that kicks off the Christmas shopping season.” Participating bookstores will spend the day setting a decidedly less-frenetic mood by playing classical music, serving glasses of wine, or even offering hand massages, reports The Guardian.

Jasmine Denholme, whose Wenlock Books will be participating in the November 28 event, told thebookseller.com: “We are going to have a pleasant afternoon in the bookshop, celebrating, handing out prosecco and, in the afternoon, we will have an afternoon tea, handing out cakes and fresh coffee.”

As the Booksellers Association’s Alan Staton explained to The Guardian, the event was specifically created to be the antithesis of Black Friday’s focus on deals. “It’s about discounts, it’s about a feeding frenzy,” he said. “So we said, why don’t we have a ‘Civilised Saturday’ which shows that what booksellers offer is an informed, civilised environment for people to make purchases. It may be for people who have gone through Black Friday and need some R&R afterwards, or for those who shun it for a more civilised alternative.”

There is a certain sense of specifically English pride involved in the event, a backlash to what’s perceived as the American vibe of Black Friday, a fairly new addition to the British calendar. “Black Friday appeared quite suddenly in the U.K., and since it’s an American tradition following on from Thanksgiving, it doesn’t mean anything to us,” Denholme told The Guardian. “It’s become a day of chaos and that’s not at all how we feel shopping should be. Christmas shopping should be a luxury where customers can take the time to find the perfect gift.” It’s a sentiment that seems to be shared, with over 100 book retailers reportedly participating in Civilised Saturday.

Unfortunately, Civilised Saturday appears to be limited—as an “official” function, at least—to U.K. booksellers. That doesn’t mean, however, that those of us stateside can’t participate in spirit. Whether you’re looking for a respite from the post-Thanksgiving madness, or just need something new to read during that inevitable airport delay, why not spend some time at an independent bookstore? After all, according to the Booksellers Association, it’s the civilized thing to do.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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