What’s it like to be a black or brown student experiencing racial profiling in our public schools, and being pushed into the school to prison pipeline? The Tumblr “On Struggling,” which describes itself as “a collective zine project by people of color with the intent of sharing personal narratives of struggle with culture, identity, white supremacy, mental health in our communities, modes of self-care and more,” provides a heartbreaking view into the very real injustices going down.

On the post titled “TW::violence** TW** RACISM** “You Ain’t Shit” an anonymous author details efforts to get after school programs geared toward preventing teen dating violence and educating youth about “oppression, racism, classism, sexism, ableism, masculinity, healthy relationships, sexuality,” and social justice going at a high school on Chicago’s southwest side.


An initial meeting “with the school counselors, representatives from a local large “family services” org, the student advocate/dean (due to budgeting, he’s both) and some other folks that deal with student activities,” was an eye opener:

“I asked them about their sense of dating violence in the school and they said “There hasn’t been none of that in about 3 years…” They looked at each other and all sorta shook their heads in agreement. They told me that all the “bad kids” are gone and I wouldn’t have to worry bout that. “Where did they go?” I asked? “Dead, transferred out, or just gone,” was his response. “The problems we have now are kids being lazy or making out in the hallways. That’s what you can help them with. You can probably open this door right now and see some of that in the hallway.” They all “um-hmm’d” at the same time and it was a consensus. All the bad kids are gone, and the ones left make out too much.”

The nonchalance with which these adults label kids as bad and talk about them being dead, transferred, or gone, is chilling, but a return trip to the school cafeteria to recruit students into the program reveals the horrible truth of what happens to the so-called “bad” kids:

“I heard a student about 20 yards away from me that had just been thrown up into the cafeteria wall by a cop. The young person was almost a foot shorter than the cop and the cop was decked out in his uniform, vest, gun, night stick, tazer, etc. The cop repeatedly threw the kid in the wall and chest bumped him over and over again. The young person repeatedly tried to maintain his balance and defend himself, but the cop was winning this battle.

Before I knew it, my feet were carrying me over to the cop and the young person. I started yelling at the cop “STOP TREATING HIM LIKE THAT?! STOP TALKING TO HIM LIKE THAT!!” The cop at this point was yelling in the kids face, “YOU AIN’T SHIT. FUCK YOU. FUCK YOU! YOU AIN’T SHIT” while spit flew from his mouth into the young person’s face. The young person responded back the best he could with his own round of “Fuck You’s”—but really it was a futile attempt to reclaim a bit of his dignity in a manufactured situation where his power had already been stripped from him the minute he walked through those metal detectors that morning. The cop looked as if he was about to break his arm over his head and eventually handcuffed him and pushed him out.”

Defenders of such police behavior in schools attended by children of color, particularly schools in low income communities, frequently say that we need so-called zero tolerance policies in order to ensure that the kids who “want to learn” have a safe space to do so. Thanks to racial profiling and the resulting lowered expectations for black and brown children, too often school staff and campus police officers determine from the jump that black and brown students don’t want to learn, are less capable of academic achievement, and are merely “bad kids” that must be handcuffed and removed.

Although the Obama Administration has called for a moratorium on these harsh discipline policies, with Secretary of Education Arne Duncan noting that 95 percent of suspensions are for things like students being disruptive, disrespectful, or late to class, what’s key to remember is that a change of policy doesn’t necessarily change the racist attitudes and behavior of the adults in the building. This incident at this school in Chicago happened after Secretary Duncan and Attorney General Eric Holder made their announcement.

Melinda Anderson recently asked, “How long will we allow black and Hispanic children to be punished more harshly than white children for the same offenses? How long will we continue to let schools be the pipeline to prison for black and Hispanic youth?”

I’m a parent to two black boys, one of whom turns 13-years-old this week, so those aren’t merely questions I’m turning over as an academic exercise. I know very well, as do the parents of Trayvon Martin, and the parents of any youth of color who’s been stopped and frisked, that at any point in time, I could get a phone call telling me that one of my sons is now “in trouble.” After all, as we saw with Kiera Wilmot, the Florida student expelled and arrested last spring for doing a science experiment, racial profiling in our schools negatively impacts even the so-called “good” black kids.

Sadly, in many communities of color, particularly if they’re low income communities, acceptance of this racial profilinga desensitization to a police officer yelling “you ain’t shit,” and cuffing studentsis all too real. Indeed, instead of coming to the student’s defense, other students and the school staff “went back to eating and functioning as if what had just happened was normal.” One of the college interns working on the project, who’d graduated from another public high school in Chicago, even “said that when he saw what happened earlier in the day with the cop and the kid—he just brushed it off as normal. He was desensitized to it because it’s what he grew up seeing all the time in his own high school’s cafeteria.”

Now, try to imagine a similar scenario happening at a school attended by white students. It’s pretty impossible to picture this going down—not to mention, outraged parents would complain to the school principal and/or the school board. If you throw white kids against a wall and tell them that they “ain’t shit,” at the minimum, someone’s getting fired.

Until we as a society decide that it’s unacceptable to treat any group of students in this way these students in Chicago, and elsewhere across America, are being treated, the sad reality is that it’ll keep happening. As the “On Struggling” author notes, “MLK said he had a dream that one day his children would not be judged by the color of their skin, but the content of their character. We ain’t there yet.”

Black teenage student studying image via Shutterstock

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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