I’d just moved in to the East Village when Hurricane Sandy hit. The blackout seemed to dissect the center of the universe in two. My roommate and I went from being new residents of the East Village to new residents of the area South of Power, otherwise known as SoPo, before our boxes were even unpacked.


I’d spent the past month combing through apartment listings. The ad for our new SoPo apartment would probably have looked something like this:

Looking for a way to leave the hustle and bustle of the big city behind without going too far from home? Got an ex-boyfriend who keeps calling? Creditors waking you up in the middle of the night? New York’s hippest neighborhood, SoPo, is completely disconnected from the modern grid. No cell phone service! No Internet! No power! No connection to the outside world whatsoever!!

Unplugged from the grid, we put down our smartphones and spent the week wandering around our new hood without the help of Yelp or Google. Everywhere we went local businesses were a salvation for their neighbors. In the sea of darkness, tiny candles flickering in their windows gathered people together to eat and drink. It was in these establishments that the magic of the blackout unfolded.

Restaurant owners cooked whatever they had on hand by candlight. Staff made the trek from every borough, sometimes on foot, just to serve someone dinner. Patrons at a restaurant in Nolita crossed the invisible border between tables and struck up a conversation. A group of street performers wandered into an East Village cafe to provide entertainment. Neighbors, who’d lived next door for years without exchanging much more than a hello, now swapped stories as they hurled over-ripe melons through the aisles of a makeshift bowling alley in their local market.

Though spirits were high, it was clear this wasn’t something these small businesses would rebound from easily. The minute power went out, food started spoiling in their fridges. Days of uncooked perishables were wasted. Employees who couldn’t get to work lost wages because there simply wasn’t enough money coming in to pay them. Every day the lights were off made it one day harder to turn them back on.

One night, at an Italian restaurant on the Lower East Side, we had an idea. What if we could help these local businesses recoup losses by selling remnants of the blackout?

We spent the rest of the week roaming the streets of Lower Manhattan collecting darkened light bulbs from lamps, chandeliers, and marquee signs. A limited number of them are now for sale at www.SoPoElectric.com. If you’re wondering whether these lamps work, they don’t. They’re not designed to conduct electricity. Instead they commemorate the spirit of SoPo: a neighborhood that came together as a community in darkness. It’s our hope that they’ll remind people to keep that bright spirit alive in their own neighborhoods – whether they live in the East Village or Prairie Village, Kansas – by helping local establishments keep the lights on.

Each light bulb is individually numbered and displayed with the name and address of a local business on a base of salvaged Eastern White Pine handcrafted by a local carpenter. All of the proceeds go back to local Lower Manhattan businesses like the Beekman Pub, St. Mark’s Market, or cultural institutions like The Italian American Museum.

About a month ago, I was walking in the West Village when I noticed that Low Country, one of the businesses we collected a light bulb from, was no longer open. There are dozens of possible reasons why. It’s not easy to make it as a small business anywhere, let alone in New York. But, I couldn’t help thinking that without the blackout, Low Country and so many other small businesses like them might have had more of a shot.

In lieu of pies and cookies, Mother Nature welcomed us to the neighborhood by turning our new digs into a dark zone. But our neighbors had other plans. We’d barely lived there a month before they swooped us under their wing. They helped keep the community bright on the so-called “dark side” of Manhattan. I can’t think of a warmer welcome or reason to call it home.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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