The only relationship anyone seems to have with their neighbors anymore is at most a familiar head nod or wave hello while passing each other on the block. Or maybe it’s a passive aggressive note about how someone didn’t put out the recycling correctly. Especially here in New York City, where we are all living on top of each other, the notion of what it means to be a “neighbor” is, for most, nonexistent.

It’s fascinating to think about how many interesting, creative, and accomplished people who must live in each giant apartment building in New York. Yet, it’s not as if those people are all coming home and collaborating together. They’re not even asking each other for a cup of sugar.


Working on film sets, Ryan O’Hara Theisen and I realized that we would often start our 6 a.m. morning not knowing a soul, and by the time the set wrapped 10 hours later, we were sharing inside jokes. We realized these powerful bonds which were created between strangers on collaborative projects could carry over to individual blocks in New York neighborhoods.

On My Block Films launched in 2012 with a mission to build stronger neighborhoods through filmmaking. Each block is challenged with making a short film, using only their block’s neighbors as cast and crew. We believe that just knowing your neighbors is a huge step in building better communities, and we wanted to give people the excuse to finally reach out and start those relationships. In the end, we’re all giving back to our city a collection of stories from blocks throughout the boroughs as a sort of creative archive.

Andrew Thomas has lived on Snyder Avenue between 31st and 32nd Street in Brooklyn his entire life. He picked up a postcard about the On My Block Film Challenge at a bar last Summer. The postcard sat on his desk for about a month.

Later that summer, Andrew attended a festival with a lot of BMX bikers, and one of the photos he took of the bikers that day became his background on his computer desktop. It wasn’t until he saw the postcard on his desk and the photo of the bikers that he remembered a neighbor who is always out doing tricks on his bike on their street. This inspired him to introduce himself and make a short film.

Andrew said that Quentin Jean, who became the subject of his documentary, Bikes & Beats, had lived on the block off and on for about ten years, and he’d seen him riding around, but had never actually talked to him. As they got to know each other, they also realized they shared a passion for music. The film, Bikes & Beats, became a profile of Quentin Jean that explores the creative similarities between street bike riding and music production.

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Since making this short, not only have they become close friends, but Andrew and Quentin have already started working on other film and music projects together. Their fellow neighbors have shown a lot of interest and pride in the film and have already asked when they can be a part of the next one.

There are many more stories just like this from neighbors around the world. That’s why we want to hear from you. If you’d like to make a film with your neighbors, sign up at www.onmyblockfilms.com. The 2013 challenge starts on July 1, 2013 and all films must be completed and submitted by October 31, 2013. Finalists will be screened at our awards ceremony in November.

Hang out with your neighbors on the last Saturday of April (a day we’re calling “Neighborday”). Click here to say you’ll Do It, and here to download GOOD’s Neighborday Toolkit and a bunch of other fun stuff.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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