In January, President Trump sat at his desk in the Oval Office and signed an executive order attempting to curb the number of Syrian refugees allowed into the United States. Yet displaced people have long woven themselves into the very fabric of the neighborhoods surrounding the White House and Capitol Hill.* In this series, “The Refugees of Capitol Hill,” we share the stories, in their own words, of some of the refugees who have lived and experienced Washington, D.C., before and after the 2016 election, including the son of a Laotian refugee who has established a food delivery service featuring refugee chefs, a recent Afghan refugee fleeing the Taliban, and, below, an 81-year-old German refugee from World War II.

Greta A.

81, Germany


I’ve come to the realization that if you’re a refugee, you’re a refugee all your life. When you’re young, you are busy learning things and going on with your life. You don’t really think about it, or reflect on who you’re supposed to be. But now I see how I impacted people’s lives in a way that would not have happened if nothing had happened to me.

[quote position=”right” is_quote=”true”]If you didn’t get out, you got it in the neck.[/quote]

I was a German born in Yugoslavia because the Germans had been forced to flee from Alsace-Lorraine. Some went to America. After the Turks had been thrown out of the Austro-Hungarian Empire, my family went to Serbia. Then the Nazis came and claimed us as their own. It was a politically very unstable and confusing and dangerous time. My father was sent to prison, where he perished. The Russians were coming closer. If you didn’t get out, you got it in the neck. I had an uncle and his son who were shot to death. My poor aunt was in a concentration camp being eaten up by lice.

My mother was clever enough for us to get out, my grandmother, aunt, and me. I was 8 years old and I had to leave my home and my dog. I never saw either again. We got out just before things fell apart. It took us three weeks to get to Austria, with many different kinds of transport. We ended up near Vienna, where we stayed for several months. But the Russians were coming closer. So my mother decided we couldn’t stay there and again we got under way. It took us five weeks to go to Salzburg thanks to daily air raids and things like that. At the end of the war, we ended up in a little village called Wals, on the border of Bavaria.

Some friends came over a few weeks ago for hot dogs. They asked me how did we live once we were in Austria. “Did you have a house?” they asked. A house! We were lucky to have one room! I realized there’s no way to convey how it was. I told them, “You have no idea. And I’m glad you have no idea.”

My aunt became ill. She had leukemia and died. And then my mother died from leukemia as well. Because I was an orphan, because I could not return to where I came from, I was considered a person without a country. In 1948, I was sent to a refugee camp for six weeks in Munich. The camp was full of orphans, a lot of us, all nationalities. Certainly Jewish children who had survived. It was quite a scene. Then relatives in Pennsylvania said I could live with them. Catholic Charities helped with my airfare. I flew on Scandinavian Airlines. It was so glamorous. The stewardesses looked like movie stars.

I came to the Bronx and couldn’t get over the fact they had lights, street lights and other lights. Neon lights! My relatives came to get me and took me to Reading, Pennsylvania. I attended a parochial school so there were some nuns who still spoke German. Everyone was incredibly nice and supportive. But I didn’t have anyone to talk to who was like me. And that was pretty much the case my whole life.

I came to Washington, D.C., with my husband, who I’d met in Chicago when I worked at the First National Bank of Chicago after my foster dad had died. He was in the Army and was sent here to D.C. We stayed here and he died 10 years ago. I live here with my dog, Sam.

[quote position=”left” is_quote=”true”]I flew on Scandinavian Airlines. It was so glamorous. The stewardesses looked like movie stars.[/quote]

Americans were so wonderful, positive, and kind. Here, people didn’t point at you and say you’re a stranger. You had a problem, you did something about it. There was no despair here. Other places weren’t cheerful—they didn’t have the wonderful American ideal of being positive and helpful. It was so much easier here.

I live near the National Cathedral and sometimes participate in evening classes. There was one man leading the group who said he always thought he could protect his children until 9/11. And it scared the daylights out of him. I knew since I was 8 years old that no one could be protected. Except in America you could. I was so happy that those things didn’t happen here. Until 9/11. The man was right.

And now. I don’t know why those people voted for him. It’s the strangest thing, like a movie. A big mistake. I think about it all the time. What’s going on in the world? It’s happening again.

We went through hard times before here with Nixon. It was a scary time in Washington, with protesters attacking police cars and breaking windows. Bloodshed everywhere. But compared to what’s going on now, that was small potatoes.

Two years ago, I saw photos of those columns of refugees walking through the fields in Europe. I felt dread and sorrow for them, as well as for those who will be dealing with their problems. I realized what an impact it must have been when we came through; what did the natives think? “Here they come. What are we going to do with them?” Nobody would choose to be a refugee. Here we go again.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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