From “Most Improved Student” to “Most Likely to Win an Oscar,” end-of-school-year awards are usually a fun way for teachers to acknowledge the positive traits of their students, printing up personalized certificates for their kids and handing them out at a special ceremony. Sometimes parents even attend to cheer the kids on. (Full disclosure: I was once awarded “Most Likely to Become a Romance Novelist,” which didn’t exactly pan out, but was a nice gesture of creative solidarity.)


But a trophy handed out at a middle school near Atlanta has become a sobering reminder of how critical it is to ensure that end-of-year awards don’t end up demeaning students. Last week, two teachers at Memorial Middle School in Conyers, Georgia, gave a 14-year-old girl with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder a trophy inscribed with the words “Most Likely to Not Pay Attention.” The trophy’s wording called attention to the difficulty people with ADHD often have with paying attention or remaining still for long periods of time.

“I feel like it was very derogatory. I feel like it was humiliating,” the student’s mother, Nicole Edwards, told Fox 5 Atlanta on Friday. Edwards found out about the trophy after her daughter brought it home. “My first thought was, I wanted to know how my child felt when she walked across that stage and got that award. I became furious,” she said.

Other parents in Conyers shared Edwards’ outrage. “Teachers are supposed to know what conditions their students have, and then to give them an award, that’s totally ridiculous,” parent Cheryl Davis told ABC affiliate WSB 2.

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Roughly 11 percent of children—6.4 million kids aged 4–17—have been diagnosed with ADHD, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The American Psychiatry Association states that these students’ “hyperactivity and inattention are noticeably greater than expected for their age and cause distress and/or problems functioning at home, at school or with friends.”

As a result, kids with ADHD face plenty of harassment in school. One recent study by researchers at the University of Michigan found that students who take medication for ADHD are twice as likely to be bullied in school as other students. So it doesn’t help when teachers join in and shame these students, too—and it probably happens more than people realize. After receiving about 2,000 complaints from parents alleging ADHD-related discrimination over the past five years, last summer the U.S. Department of Education Office of Civil Rights issued a letter clarifying that schools should support students with ADHD and keep them from being bullied. “The failure to provide needed services to students with disabilities can result in serious social, emotional and educational harm,” wrote assistant secretary for civil rights Catherine Lhamon.

To that end, it seems the school district has taken complaints from Edwards and other parents seriously. “Earlier this week, we learned about an awards ceremony held during spirit week at Memorial Middle School that had insensitive award categories,” Cindy Ball, chief of strategy and innovation at Rockdale County Public Schools, said in a statement on Friday. “RCPS will neither condone nor tolerate any activities or insensitive behavior that may cause embarrassment or humiliation to our children.”

District officials said the two teachers will not be returning to the school and will not be working at other schools in the district, but because of personnel privacy laws, they refused to say whether that is related to the incident with the trophy.

As for Edwards, she is focused on ensuring that similarly demeaning awards are never handed out again “As a parent, it is my job to protect my child from being humiliated and bullied, especially when the bully is her teacher. Making fun of any disability is not acceptable,” she said. She’s asking for future end-of-year awards to be approved by school administrators.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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