We’re relaunching a GOOD online series, “People Are Awesome”, where we feature good people doing great things—and seek their advice, inspiration, and ideas. This week’s Awesome Person: Neal Baer.


Neal Baer’s name comes with a certain heft in Hollywood, the result of writing and producing heavy-hitters like ER and Law & Order: SVU. But what you may not realize is beyond the screen, Baer recently lauched a non-profit venture called ActionLab (still in beta), as a way of “bridging the gap between inspiration and action.” It’s a way for regular citizens, when they become inspired to act based on some TV show (or movie, book, piece of art, etc.), to have some means of doing something—beyond clicking an online petition.

For instance, one of Baer’s SVU episodes concerned the huge backlog of unprocessed rape kits in America, and how that allows thousands of perpetrators to remain at large. Instead of viewers just feeling frustrated and saddened by the issue, ActionLab would give them the tools and knowledge to make a difference. This could be anything from showing people how to get their own rape kit, to teaching them how to pressure local governments into processing the backlog.

“The idea first came out of my work on ER,” says Baer, who is also a Harvard-trained medical doctor. “We’d get letters and emails from people who had learned about various illnesses and treatments from the show, and wanted to know what they could do. How could we use the shows we were making to help people do something in their own lives? ActionLab comes from the notion that storytelling provides inspiration and engagement, but there is nowhere for people to take action.”

With TV one of our most powerful tools of communication, the idea of potentially pushing viewers into activists is a compelling one. Baer was a no-brainer to be GOOD’s next Awesome Person.

Who is your hero?

That really changes depending on what I’m reading or what I’m doing at any moment. One recent hero runs an organization called Reencontro in Mozambique. Her name is Olinda Mugabe and her group provides support for more thousands of orphans in Mozambique. There are over 500,000 orphans in that country, but there are no orphanages or a foster care system there. Reencontro gives support for these poor kids who don’t have extended families, so they don’t end up living in abandoned buildings or a garbage dump.

What book most inspired you?

It’s a book by Alan Down called The Velvet Rage about the shame and profound negative power that can dominate gay men’s lives. This book was a turning point in my life, the impetus for helping me come out.

What’s been the most inspiring news story from the last month?

Can it be something that inspired me to do something because I’m angry. Ok. It was an op-ed piece in the Times called A Bathroom of One’s Own, basically saying Obama was wrong to impose the transgender bathroom law without public debate. Truth is, we are not talking about bathrooms here, we’re talking about human rights, our essential right to dignity. I feel like people get so focused on the genitalia of transgendered people, when really it’s about people’s brains. Peter Shuck’s argument is weak, and I’m thinking of writing a rebuttal.

What is a piece of advice you’d like to share with the world?

Take time to listen to the voice inside, and understand that what you think isn’t always what’s true. This sounds like a contradiction, but I mean that there’s a lot of stories we tell ourselves, and just because you had a thought doesn’t mean it’s right. Through action, through changing your behavior, you can overcome a lot of anxiety and fear.

What’s the best advice you’ve received?

Alan Downs, the author of the book I mentioned, is my therapist now. He always says, “People show you who they are. They may say many things, but through their actions they show you.

And the worst advice you’ve gotten?

It’s just business, quote unquote. People do things really lamentable, then they say that. I think it’s a terrible excuse. You see it all the time in Hollywood to excuse bad behavior and self-involvement.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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