City Year corps members based in Los Angeles and New York write about their experiences.

It was the day after Labor Day when my City Year Los Angeles team serving at Robert Louis Stevenson Middle School met the school’s faculty and staff. City Year has been in Los Angeles since 2007, but this is the first year that Stevenson Middle School has had a City Year team, so many of the teachers had yet to be introduced to our purpose in the school and in their classrooms.


I stood with my team of 18 at the front of the cafeteria as we showed them how our presence as tutors, mentors, and role models to students would improve their students’ attendance, behavior, and course performance in math and English—three factors that predict the likelihood of graduating from high school. I could see the excitement in the teachers’ eyes at the prospect of having 18 more adults at their school. The room was filled with hope and enthusiasm and I could tell that this was going to be a good year.

This moment marked the start of my service in Los Angeles and the continuation of a journey that began across the country one year ago in the neighborhood that I grew up in. Last year, I served as a corps member at Overbrook High School in West Philadelphia. I joined City Year because I wanted to be a positive figure in the classroom and the school and, in that year, I did just that. While I reached a lot of students, Alexis, a sophomore in one of my classes, stands out in my memory. She was bright but disruptive in class and frequently got in trouble. I worked with her by pulling her out of class, finding a quiet spot to for us to concentrate on course material, and talking with her about her problems and the reasons why she got in trouble. Over time, something clicked for her. In the end, we succeeded in turning Alexis’ need for negative attention to class participation and she became one of the most active students in that classroom.

By January, it was clear that my time with City Year was having a positive impact on not only the school, but also my life. Not only did I serve with people from many different places with many different experiences, I did so in my own neighborhood. I found myself growing as a person and, after some reflection, I decided that I wanted to do another year with City Year and challenge myself further by moving to the Los Angeles site. I knew that moving from my hometown in Philadelphia to Los Angeles would be a major adjustment, but I would not let distance stop me from serving or seeking further personal growth.

Today, I lead a team of first year corps members and it is my responsibility to support and motivate them through their year of service. I brought with me the lessons I learned last year and I try to mold those experiences into meaningful messages for my team. My teammates have great ideas and an outstanding work ethic. For example, after just a few days in school, they wanted to not only recruit students and engage parents for our after-school program but to find the best way to do it. After giving them some guidance, they worked quickly to set up parent information sessions and create flyers and PowerPoint presentations that explained the benefits of the program.

It is still early in the year and we have a lot ahead of us. We have just identified the students we need to target in class and we are now starting the social justice curriculum in our after school program. We are still growing together as leaders and as teammates and, inevitably, there will be challenging moments and rocky times. It will be my job to maintain perspective and draw upon my experiences to keep our team going on our journey together. I look forward to the challenge.

Photo via Flickr user City Year.

Law Murray is a second year corps member serving at Stevenson Middle School in Los Angeles.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Photo credit: CanvaDogs have impressive observational powers.

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

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    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

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