“Gender is not a binary” is a common scold in 2016, for the moments when some cisgendered acquaintance makes the wrong kind of comment at a party. But never in the U.S. has this truism borne the stamp of law.


In a case with far-reaching implications, a 52-year-old retired Army tank mechanic has upended our formalized definition of gender in America. Jamie Shupe of Oregon is now legally nonbinary—neither male nor female.

Shupe was born male and married a woman 29 years ago. Together they raised a child. Three years ago Shupe left the military and began a partial transition, according to NPR. They (the preferred pronoun) started taking hormone replacements and grew breasts, but never intended a full transition to a woman’s body. Thus, nonbinary.

A handful of countries around the world, including India and Germany, officially allow for a third option (Indonesia has five). The state of Oregon now joins the ranks.

Hayley Gorenberg, deputy legal director at Lambda Legal, says we’ve known that people didn’t always fit into tidy categories “since ancient times.” Still, government recognition is only just catching up. “They are starting to have dawning recognition that male and female is not the whole ball of wax,” says Gorenberg.

Lambda Legal is currently assisting a nonbinary person named Dana Zzyym, who is fighting for similar accommodations. Zzym, a Navy veteran, was born intersex; their birth certificate was left blank. They are looking for an appropriate listing on their passport.

Shupe’s legal process started when they applied for a nonbinary drivers license and got rejected. Shupe took the matter to the Multnomah County court, and won. The state of Oregon has declined to fight the ruling.

Instead, the matter now enters the minutia of bureaucracy; questions arise of what wording to use on license applications, how many gender boxes to offer. Gorenberg says many other countries offer an “x” option beyond male and female, something of a catchall category—or a way of saying n/a.

Chances are we’ll see many similar court cases in years to come, where everything from passport applications to hospital paperwork bears scrutiny. Gorenberg hopes this raises an important question: Do many of our forms need a gender classification to begin with?

“It’s possible gender fields have been gratuitous for a long time,” she says. “But if we are going to include them, they should at least be accurate.”

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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