Sitting in their house in San Francisco’s Mission District, Elissa Chandler and Johanna Kenrick didn’t know what to think of a seemingly random postcard from someone named La Shon Walker that read, “My favorite place in Bayview is Candlestick Point because it’s a lovely park with amazing views.” Elissa and Johanna were curious and followed the printed URL on the back of the postcard. They soon realized their address was randomly selected to receive a postcard as part of the SF Postcard Project.


The SF Postcard Project fosters community connection through storytelling exchange. Residents in marginalized neighborhoods fill out a postcard with a positive personal story of their community. That postcard is then mailed to a random San Francisco resident to give them a different view of a neighborhood.

San Francisco’s Bayview neighborhood is tucked into an isolated Southeast corner of the city. Most San Franciscans don’t have a reason to go to there. They only know what they see on the news—violence, drugs, and poverty. But, there are many positive stories that exist in these communities. Stories that need to be heard.

Elissa and Johanna’s postcard had come from La Shon Walker, a Bayview resident and President of the Bayview Merchants Association. Elissa and Johanna sent me an email expressing interest in meeting the mysterious author of their postcard. I had La Shon’s email and introduced them to each other. They exchanged a few emails, at one point realizing after the fact that they were both at The Ramp, a restaurant in the Dogpatch, at the same time. A few weeks later they were at The Ramp again, this time at the same table.

We had organized to all meet up for dinner to chat about the project, community, and our lives. I didn’t know what to expect, but what followed for the next few hours was an energetic, real conversation between people from different neighborhoods, different backgrounds, and different generations—but all with a similar desire to build a better San Francisco.

Elissa had been to Bayview a few times in the past and Johanna had never been. La Shon urged them both to check out more of what Bayview has to offer, stating that “Bayview needs you.” She said that it will take people from inside as well as outside the community to solve the challenges in Bayview.

Citing their experiences volunteering at a local community farmers market, both Elissa and Johanna agreed that it takes time and effort to build new connections with people you might not normally interact with. But they also noted that once you make those connections it can entirely change how you view a neighborhood.

These connections can run deeper than you might even suspect. At one point in the conversation, everyone realized that they had all recently read the same book about a collision of cultures between a Hmong refugee family and the health care system in Merced, California. It was a perfectly fitting serendipitous moment. This is the purpose of the SF Postcard Project: give people from different communities the opportunity to learn more about each other and they’ll be surprised and delighted by how similar they really are.

After La Shon sung its praises, everyone agreed to have a future dinner date at an acclaimed Bayview restaurant. All people need is one small reason to talk to people that seem different than them, to connect with different communities. A simple postcard can be the catalyst to create lasting connections between people and communities.

“How do we break down stereotypes?” I asked at one point. “By doing what we’re doing right now,” replied La Shon.

Read the SF Postcard Project stories, and learn more, including how to participate at sfpostcardproject.com. Get your postcard templates at neighborhoodpostcardproject.com.

Images courtesy of Hunter Franks

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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