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We’ve been having sex since the beginning of time and we still haven’t managed to find a way to talk about it, especially to young people. It’s awkward, clumsy and uncomfortable (the language, not the sex). But it doesn’t have to be, and not having the conversation is causing more harm than good. Young people are surrounded by sex and thoughts about sex in the media, in school hallways, in their pants… we still see the squirms, the red cheeks, the awkward giggles and uncomfortable silence. The reality is that young people are having sex or thinking about having sex and they aren’t getting the tools and information to navigate this part of their lives.


Sex education in California sucks. And here’s why:

  • Oakland has some of the highest rates of STDs in California.
  • The teen pregnancy rates are three times that of the national average.
  • The number of people living with HIV and AIDS in Oakland is through the roof.
  • Oakland has an unfortunately thriving sex trade industry where the average age of entering for young women is 12 years old.
  • Homophobia and heterosexism is potent in high schools according to LGBTQ high school students in Oakland.

Forward Together Youth Program developed and conducted a Youth Participatory Action Research (YPAR) project, which surveyed over 500 Oakland Unified School District (OUSD) students. Additionally, six focus groups were conducted to ask students about the sex education they are currently receiving, and what they would like their sex education to look like.

The results were shocking yet not surprising given the stats previously mentioned. The survey reported that 62 percent of students said they did not receive any sex education in the last year, and 63 percent said they do not receive sexual health information for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) students, which by California law the district is required to teach if they are teaching sex ed. More importantly, 64 percent of students are in favor for more sex education.

As co-founder of ImMEDIAte Justice I am working with my team to change this. We are a movement to inspire a new youth-driven media conversation about sex, gender, love and relationships. ImMEDIAte Justice has teamed up with Forward Together Youth to carry out their recently launched campaign in Oakland, called Sex Ed the City: More Than Just Protection.

The goal of this campaign is to get comprehensive sex education into the schools of Oakland and get the community talking about sex in a healthy way. We are doing this to ensure that students in Oakland have the information and resources they need to make the best decisions for themselves about sex, sexuality, gender and their bodies.

We have begun this campaign by working with youth to create the Sex Ed: the Saga video series, where youth wrote, shot, animated, acted, and directed three films. The first video to be published, 20 Condoms, was created by Asian youth in Oakland & imMEDIAte Justice. This video’s goal is to get young people, caregivers, teachers, and mentors to start conversations on topics like healthy decision-making, sexual orientation, gender identification, and acceptance. The video series is created by youth and for youth and it’s a way to empower young people to lead conversations.

Creating a more conscious society starts with becoming comfortable in our bodies. It starts with conversations around negotiating what we want and discovering what we truly desire. Please share our story to support comprehensive sex education for youth.

You can view the full YPAR report and its list of recommendations to reform sex education for youth here.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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