Describing Mary Tyler Moore’s Oscar-nominated performance as a grief-stricken mother in Ordinary People, film critic Pauline Kael wrote “Moore … seems to be doing penance for having given audiences a good time” as a beloved television comedienne by choosing film roles that require “performances locked in dreariness.” It’d be easy, but not very fair, to level a similar criticism at Jennifer Aniston, another actress who came to fame playing a beautiful young woman better known for her hairstyle than her ability to confront adversity.

Claire, Aniston’s character in Cake, copes with her chronic pain with pills and wine and little else, openly, hostilely refusing all efforts to help her achieve real recovery from her largely unspecified injuries—apparently because, for reasons also largely unspecified, she doesn’t think she deserves it. Instead, Claire’s dangerously enamored with suicide and possibly in the middle of a psychotic break. It’s the kind of role that seems ripe for onscreen masochistic martyrdom, but had Aniston, who also acted as executive producer for the film, truly wanted to make us watch her suffer she might’ve insisted that her character be poor, as well.


Such a choice would not only have infinitely increased the dramatic difficulties Claire—a wealthy, for-all-purposes-retired lawyer—faces as she refuses to recover, it would also reflect reality, where chronic pain disproportionately affects low-income patients. The scar treatment cream Claire avoids applying to her disfigurements, despite the concerned pleading of her housekeeper-personal-assistant-nursemaid Silvana (Adriana Barrazza), for example, might be a more meaningful signifier of inner damage if the cream’s procurement had an actual cost. The explosive and ultimately degrading pharmacy scene that might’ve resulted from Claire having a poor person’s prescription drug coverage (or lack thereof) could’ve provided the kind of ugly-cry clip that seems to sway Academy voters so. In the film as it is, the cream comes and goes, hardly commented on, just one more thing Claire can take for granted. Her actual uncomfortable pharmacy scene—as a “rich white lady” in a Tijuana drugstore demanding indiscreet amounts of un-prescribed schedule-one pain pills—is really more of an uncomfortable customer service experience, with Claire and the viewer cringing for entirely different reasons.

One of the worst aspects of chronic pain, other than the obvious, is the subjective nature of its severity, the lack of a satisfyingly quantifiable means of verifying its authenticity to others. That Aniston’s Claire carries herself like someone who’s very wincing essence is defined by the pins penetrating her legs is no accident, nor is it a symptom of overacting on Aniston’s part. Claire views her pain as a license to hurt everyone around her, and those other people—especially the members of the support group she cynically attends to please her pain-management doctor—are to be tolerated only as long as it takes to get whatever she needs from them. She prefers to establish dominance early in every relationship through cash and sarcasm, and in portraying Claire, Aniston has let her humor grow significantly uglier than her still very-much-intact looks. Much of the screen time features Claire alone, suffering in silence, but that may be preferable for filmgoers without the stomach for the kind of abuse dished out by Claire, a character who can afford not to apologize.

Her wealth, however, also allows her a luxury most people in her position don’t have: the option to delay her recovery indefinitely. The idea that there are no second acts in American lives is provably false across class lines, but the very rich, it seems, can linger in the lobby bar during a prolonged self-imposed intermission and nobody will have the nerve ask them to leave. For example, Claire can extend her pain-pill prescriptions by bribing her doctor with the promise of a recommendation letter. She can avoid getting busted at the border with a single strategic phone call. She can fashion her personal narrative into a long and hard-fought redemption arc complete with secret gardener humping, prescription-drug-induced hallucinations, and late-night therapeutic splash sessions in her backyard swimming pool. Most telling of the predicament facing Claire as an otherwise privileged woman in real pain is her insistence, following a tragic car accident, on lying completely flat on her back in the passenger seat as Silvana (refreshingly, the supporting role becomes less thankless as the film progresses) drives her to appointments across Los Angeles. If Claire couldn’t afford a driver, she’d be forced to take the bus, where lying down is strongly discouraged and more passengers than not seem to be shouldering a disproportionate amount of pain.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

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    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

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