When I first read about hateful anti-Muslim ads being put up in New York City, I was surprised and saddened. Seriously, who does that? Then when a crop of similar ads went up on San Francisco city buses, I was outraged. As a San Francisco resident, I felt like I had to do something about it, something more than sharing my rage and complaining on Facebook or Twitter.


Outrage to Action

Is hate really the best we can do with our extraordinary First Amendment? And just because others have the right to hate doesn’t mean we have any obligation to tolerate it. I decided to take on the challenge using Louder, a ‘crowd-promotion’ platform I co-founded with Colin Mutchler. Thousands of people have used Louder to promote everything from TV ads for Occupy Wall Street to a billboard in Times Square promoting Greek tourism.

Through the Tech LadyMafia community, I was able to connect with New York-based producer Ateqah Khaki around the idea of crowdfunding a response that represented the true accepting spirit of San Francisco. Working through other online networks of activists, technologists, and creatives, we found an amazing organizing team: Aaron Perry-Zucker from The Creative Action Network, Zahra Billoo, Executive Director of the Council on American Islamic Relations’ Bay Area chapter, and Akiva Freidlin, who had organized a similar campaign in NYC. Collaborating with this team—everyone volunteering, and almost entirely over email—was one of the more meaningful experiences of my life.

Crowd Power Rising

Donations came in from all over the country (and even some from abroad). Upworthy curator Femi Oke posted the campaign with the headline, “This is What Happens When Bigots Put Ads on Buses.” A whole bunch of likes, shares, retweets, and emails later, 100 people had chipped in mostly $25 or $50 to reach our $3,000 goal, and last week our billboard went up! The corner of 10th and Howard in San Francisco’s SoMA neighborhood now sends a message that we don’t tolerate hate in this town.

Small Money, Big Voices

In an era where big money seems to run both our politics and our commercial media industry, it was empowering to know that only 100 people putting our money where our values are could buy a billboard, and get our voices heard.

We even had a billboard party (yes, that’s a thing) that included local residents, the designer of the billboard, and advocates who had been active on Middle East peace issues for decades—even the sales rep from CBS Outdoor who helped us get the billboard up. The experience of coming together in real life, standing in front of the billboard and making a message of acceptance louder than hate reaffirmed my faith in the internet’s awesomeness.

An Amplification Engine for Diversity & Acceptance

The billboard is reaching more than 200,000 people per week. So along with the articles and shares about our story online, ultimately 100 of us “amplifiers” will have helped reached nearly one million people with this message.

As Louder continues to build out their platform to give regular citizens the ability to amplify messages online and offline, I wonder what will be possible when we have 100,000 amplifiers and 100,000 diverse messages that matter?

If this campaign is any indication, we will completely transform the relationship between citizens and advertising and fill our public culture with diversity, acceptance, and a whole lotta love.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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