After the divisive 2016 presidential election, Nicole Newman-Darbois looked for ways to help her high schoolers address the angst and fear many of them admitted to feeling about the future. Dismayed with the seeming resurgence of hate speech and exclusion in the public domain, Newman-Darbois’ students were angry and confused, and she believed it was her duty to help them understand the world around them and their place in it.

“It’s my job as an educator and a teacher to provide my students the time and space to talk about the issues they are interested in,” says Newman-Darbois, a Florida English and literature teacher who is also passionate about social justice. Because of this, she searched for tools that would assist her students in working through their feelings inside her classroom.


After talking with Anne Marie Alberton, Newman-Darbois’ colleague at the University of South Florida, she was introduced to Trace Taylor of Community Leveraged Learning, a nonprofit whose mission is to provide project-based educational programs to struggling youth and adults.

[quote position=”left” is_quote=”true”]My students are used to being told exactly what to do, and the writing workshop was pretty open-ended.[/quote]

Together, they decided to implement a human rights curriculum and writing workshop that would not only allow the students to discus the issues that mattered to them, but also teach them about other historic struggles for equal rights. Taylor designed the curriculum — which covered movements by marginalized groups such as women, blacks, Native Americans, LGBTQ people, and poor whites — and Newman-Darbois edited and reviewed the material. The experienced teacher then presented it to her students, who weren’t immediately excited about the task.

“They weren’t that enthusiastic about it,” she recalls. “But once we told them they would have freedom … they latched on to the project.”

To complete the task, Newman-Darbois’ students studied several human rights movements. The curriculum consisted of a series of articles, like CNN’s coverage of the resurgence of the women’s movement, short video clips and films from PBS, YouTube, and The History Channel, as well as informative pieces like Time’s 25 Most Influential Hispanics in America.

The goal was to expose students to a variety of texts and media that would give them plenty of material to choose from when deciding on a writing topic. Newman-Darbois’ students then had to participate in discussion forums, which required them to share their thoughts on their own research and writing as well as respond to their classmates’ work.

At first, her students didn’t understand the writing workshop’s purpose. “They kept asking me why they were doing this and what it had to do with their lives,” she says, but Newman-Darbois, a 10-year veteran teacher, maintained patience, knowing the unfolding of the project would eventually speak for itself.

She also had to combat her students’ propensity toward linear thinking. “My students are used to being told exactly what to do, and the writing workshop was pretty open-ended.” At first, her students were stumped. Without direction on what to write and how to write it, they hesitated to move forward. “I ended up writing a piece off the cuff, in the classroom. It was a poem about my mom and her struggles.”

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This example helped her students understand they were able to take any situation — as long as it was relevant to the marginalized groups studied — and turn it into a piece of writing suitable for the workshop. At that point, Newman-Darbois’ ninth-graders started opening up. “They were asking questions, getting involved, and seeing the parallels between what’s going on today and the human rights movements of the past.”

The roundtable provided Newman-Darbois the necessary setting to help her students unpack their emotions in a healthy way. Just like a college writing workshop, students brought their pieces in for critique. At first, this process was met with argument and retaliation from the students. “Teenagers have a tendency to lash out at each other if they have a difference of opinion,” says Newman-Darbois. But she anticipated this reaction because she knows her students — especially her ninth-graders — are just learning how to effectively communicate with one another. The conflict presented her with another teachable moment. “Through the workshop, I defined how criticism works and set boundaries. I also let them know there would be consequences if they couldn’t adhere to the rules.”

Once her students understood how offer constructive criticism to their peers, they were more apt to listen to one another and accept feedback, rather than lash out at each other. This taught the students that they could have a difference of opinion with someone and still respect them. Newman-Darbois watched as their banter transformed from argumentative to a more cooperative conversation.

[quote position=”full” is_quote=”true”]The writing gave me a voice during a time I felt voiceless.[/quote]

The students’ writings also helped them work through their emotional responses to the world around them. Newman-Darbois remembers one ninth grader in particular who said the project made him feel like had finally been heard. He told her, “The writing gave me a voice during a time I felt voiceless.”

Taking a critical look each other’s work also helped them learn from each other, says Newman-Darbois. Moreover, her students felt like they had some autonomy over what the world was handing them. “They started asking me how they could help. They wanted to know what they could do to help create change,” she says.

In conjunction with Community Leveraged Learning, Newman-Darbois and her students published their work in the book “Human Rights: Boca Ciega High School 2017 Avid 9th Graders,” which showed her students the value of pursuing and completing a creative project. “They learned instant gratification isn’t always the best kind of gratification,” Newman-Darbois says. They also presented the book to the public at University of South Florida, St. Petersburg, where community leaders, educators, fellow students, and parents participated in a formal signing.

Newman-Darbois urges other educators to set the stage and create an environment where these children can talk about the issues they’re faced with. “Students are always asking, ‘Why am I learning this?’” she says. “If educators can try to connect the subject matter to current events, these kids become engaged and receptive.”

The Sunshine State teacher has a few tips for how educators can help their students use the classroom to navigate the world in a healthy manner. “Set the stage from the start. Establish ground rules and enforce healthy discipline across the board. Create an environment of trust so that students feel safe to open up,” she advises. She explained that parameters had to be established at the onset of the school year in order to ensure the writing workshop would be of benefit. Otherwise, a project of this kind could have led to chaos.

“I took a risk bringing these topics in the classroom, but it provided my students with an understanding of what’s going on around them,” Newman-Darbois says. “The project showed them there are things they can do to change the circumstances they’re angry about. They have a place in the world that is meaningful and important.”

Educators occupy a unique space in the lives of young people and have the ability to use their classrooms to promote understanding, camaraderie, and hope for students in tumultuous times. Teachers can strive to connect curriculum to real world scenarios and events, which enriches the learning process for students by engaging their interests and making the material relatable.

  • How couples divide chores may shape sexual desire in ways you wouldn’t expect
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    As many couples aim for more equal partnerships, dividing responsibilities isn’t always straightforward. In households where both partners work full-time, figuring out how to share chores has become an important part of maintaining balance at home.

    A new study published in The Journal of Sex Research examined whether couples dividing household chores is linked to a woman’s sexual desire. The researchers found that the relationship between the division of household labor and sexual desire varies based on beliefs about gender roles.

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    A couple cleans together.
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    Household labor balanced against sexual desire

    This pattern has long been explained in narrow ways. Low sexual desire among women in long-term relationships is often treated as an individual issue: stress, relationship dissatisfaction, or hormonal changes. Instead, this study examined a broader social dynamic: how work is divided at home compared to perceptions of what that balance should look like.

    Focusing on two different survey samples, the researchers found that women generally reported lower sexual desire than men while also indicating that they perform more household labor than their male partners. Mothers who took on a greater share of household responsibilities reported the lowest levels of sexual interest.

    The study also examined the impact of benevolent sexism, which refers to beliefs that reinforce traditional gender roles, such as women as caregivers and men as providers. A couple’s attachment to these beliefs significantly influences how household labor and sexual desire are connected.

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    Belief systems sway the balance of sexual motivation

    Women who held more egalitarian beliefs and preferred equal partnerships reported the highest levels of sexual desire when chores were split evenly. But when they found themselves doing a greater share of the household labor, they reported the lowest levels of sexual motivation.

    For women who endorsed more traditional gender roles, the pattern was different. In those cases, taking on more household responsibilities was not associated with the same decrease in sexual desire.

    Leading the research was Alexandra Liepmann, a PhD student in the Department of Psychology and Neuroscience at the University of Colorado Boulder. “Although women who endorse more traditional gender roles may not experience these costs in their sexual desire for their partner when doing more household labor, they may still experience costs in their personal and professional lives,” Liepmann told PsyPost.

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    Studies that connect the dots

    Adding to the evidence of this imbalance was a 2023 study focused on the distribution of household labor. It found that many relationships still adhere to unequal standards for women’s responsibilities compared to men’s.

    Another 2023 study found that women’s sexual desire tends to be more sensitive to the context of a relationship, particularly how things are going at home. This supports the idea that a woman’s perception of expected equality can affect her level of desire.

    Taken together, these findings indicate that household labor and beliefs about fairness may directly affect sexual desire for some women. Couples who divide chores more evenly may experience better intimacy outcomes regardless of their personal beliefs about gender roles and responsibilities.

  • Air Force graduate tears up when friend steps in to ‘tap him out’ during graduation
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    Sometimes the biggest moments in our lives might slip by unnoticed. That’s exactly what was happening to Airman Joel Usher. At his United States Air Force graduation ceremony, he stood alone, already knowing that no family members were coming to celebrate the occasion.

    Many people know what it feels like to hit a major milestone and wish someone were there. Usher was visibly emotional as fellow graduates reunited with cheering family members. Suddenly, a friend he made during training stepped forward. Phone in hand, recording the moment, he walked up to “tap him out.”

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    1 year ago today. it’s been a journey man still can’t believe i’ve made it this far but is only the beginning more blessing to come💫#fypシ #militarytapout #explorepage

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    A teary-eyed moment defined by friendship

    Caught completely off guard, a teary-eyed Usher smiles, turning what could have been a lonely memory into one defined by friendship. He posted the video on TikTok with a title overlay reading, “i had no one at my graduation to tap me out but that one good friend i met during training found me and come through for me…”

    At military graduations, there’s a tradition known as “tapping out.” Family members or close supporters step forward at the end of the ceremony to officially greet and escort the graduates away. According to the AF WingMoms, it can be an emotional experience, but the Air Force views its military purpose as a productive way to maintain orderly disbursement.

    An overwhelming gesture

    In an exclusive interview with People, Usher described how important that kind act was, leaving him holding back tears:

    “When my friend tapped me out, I was overwhelmed in the best way possible. It wasn’t just about finishing, it was about having someone there who truly had my back in that moment.”

    Usher went on to explain that the achievement was important, but the friendship and support shown to him are what he remembers most. After sharing the moment online, he was surprised by all the feedback. He believes the overwhelming response was a strong reminder of the beauty behind meaningful acts of kindness.

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    TikTok post resonates

    After 4.6 million views, people flooded the comments with emotional reactions. For some, the small gesture perfectly captured the kind of bond people form while going through difficult experiences together. This wasn’t a performative moment—just someone refusing to let another person experience an important occasion alone.

    For others, it was heartbreaking. Often, soldiers don’t have family members who are able to make the trip, or they find themselves on a solitary journey. Either way, the idea that people can accomplish something amazing and still be left to stand alone afterward can be difficult to swallow.

    Here are some of the comments:

    “i’m glad you made a good friend along the way who came looking for ya. those are the meaningful connections you make while in the military”

    “now this just broke my heart”

    “Those teary eyes”

    “This just breaks my heart! Everyone should have someone tap them out. So much respect for the military”

    “The pain in bros eyes. Went to my soul. Brother we are here for u! Ty for serving”

    “sometimes thats all we need! Just one good friend”

    “I’m so sorry no one from your bloodline was there for you in that moment but you have all of TikTok cheering you on and we are so proud of your accomplishments”

    “Ex military that tap means more than you think.”

    “i really wish they had a volunteer program for something like this… let other mamas and dads come and be there for these young men and women.. we never know how bad they just need SOMEONE to be there for them”

    “Been there my man. But you’re going to be an amazing soldier. Use that to be the best you can be”

    The mix of responses shows why meaningful moments shouldn’t be faced alone. Friendship and community are defined by simple choices: stepping in, showing up, and refusing to let a proud day also become someone’s loneliest. These small acts turn milestone accomplishments into memories carried forward with a tearful, joyful smile.

  • 59% of Americans worry about sunscreen chemicals. Only 32% understand how sunscreen works.
    Two persons applying sunscreen while sitting on a beach.

    Tiffany Miller for Melanoma Research Alliance

    Many Americans think of sunscreen at the beach. Fewer consider wearing it for the drive there. And many are questioning if they should wear sunscreen at all.

    These trends, uncovered in a new national survey from the nonprofit Melanoma Research Alliance (MRA), highlight a central challenge in skin cancer prevention.

    Skin cancer is the most common form of cancer in the United States, according to the CDC. Nine in 10 skin cancers, including melanoma, are linked to exposure to ultraviolet (UV) radiation, according to the MRA. Reducing exposure to UV radiation lowers the risk of skin cancer, making sunscreen a key part of prevention.

    A survey of 2,000 adults found that most Americans have a basic understanding of the risks of sun exposure, but that awareness doesn’t always translate into action. More than 8 in 10 recognize that spending long hours in the sun contributes to melanoma risk, yet roughly one-quarter say they rarely or never use sunscreen when spending time outdoors.

    Then there are those everyday moments that most people don’t recognize as risky. The light coming through the window over the sink. The short walk from the parking lot. The hour in the bleachers with the sun hitting one side of your face. A single sunburn can be dangerous, but it’s the accumulation of exposure over time that often drives risk.

    Sunscreen is widely recognized as an effective tool for skin cancer prevention, yet confusion and misinformation persist, especially on social media. Fifty-three percent of respondents say they have seen claims that sunscreen ingredients may be harmful. Fifty-nine percent say they are concerned about what’s in sunscreen, and 38% don’t believe sunscreen is safe and effective.

    An infographic on Melanoma Research Alliance's surveys on sunscreen facts and usage.

    Many Americans also say they aren’t sure how sunscreen works. Only about a third can correctly explain the difference between types of sunscreens, while a much larger share reports being unsure.

    Sunscreen works by absorbing or blocking UV radiation from reaching the skin, preventing DNA damage that can cause skin cancer. In the United States, the active ingredients in sunscreen undergo rigorous review by the Food and Drug Administration, which evaluates them as over-the-counter drugs. This drug-level standard requires extensive testing and contributes to a more limited set of approved UV filters compared with Europe, where sunscreens are regulated as cosmetics. The FDA is currently evaluating additional methodologies for assessing sunscreen ingredients, a process that could expand the number of approved UV filters available to U.S. consumers.

    All of this is unfolding during a period of real progress in melanoma research. While melanoma remains the deadliest form of skin cancer, more than 8,500 Americans are expected to die from it in 2026, roughly one person every hour, according to the American Cancer Society. Recent advances are improving outcomes for many patients with advanced disease, though approximately 50% of patients do not respond to current treatments, according to MRA, underscoring why prevention and early detection remain critical.

    Survey methodology: The Melanoma Research Alliance commissioned Atomik Research to conduct an online survey of 2,000 U.S. adults between March 27 and April 1, 2026. The sample is nationally representative based on gender, age, and geography. Margin of error: ±2 percentage points at a 95% confidence level. Atomik Research, part of 4media group, is a creative market research agency.

    This story was produced by Melanoma Research Alliance and reviewed and distributed by Stacker.

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