Another month, another completed GOOD 30-Day Challenge, and this one was perhaps the hardest yet. Throughout August we asked you to protect your sanity and your relationships by getting off the internet at 8 p.m. every weeknight. It seemed like a tall order, especially after we asked the GOOD community if they were addicted to the web and many of them responded in the affirmative. In our offices, too, where being online is a huge part of our jobs, the sense of addiction was palpable.

So, what did 30 days of avoiding the internet teach us? Would you hate us if we said we didn’t know?


Indeed, despite the fact that we know internet addiction is a real affliction, despite the fact that we know smartphones are constantly used rudely, despite the fact that GOOD readers and staffers have admitted to being online for literally half the day, despite all that, we just couldn’t find it within ourselves to let go.

Our reasons for failure are threefold:

  • Work—Our jobs, like many other people’s, require us to be online during for most of the day. You can’t publish articles online without the internet, nor can you send emails to sources or clients or off-site editors. Once we leave the office we’re stuck checking email at dinner to make sure stories are in or important questions are answered. The fact of the matter is that we need the internet to do business, and with so much business bleeding into personal life these days—consider the meteoric rise in home offices—getting offline when you go home simply isn’t an option for a lot of us.
  • Smartphones—Now that we’re all carrying computers in our pockets, checking email, Twitter, or the game score has never been easier. In the old days, getting online and offline via a modem was a pain. Avoiding the internet would have been easier back then. Nowadays you carry it with you at all times, making your email literally inescapable.
  • Convenience—There’s no getting around the fact that computers make life easier. Asking people to get offline at 8 p.m. means asking them to not use Google Maps to find directions to a party or Yelp to pick a restaurant. It means sending them to a tangible newspaper to get movie times and to the phone book for the number to a hardware store. Some people don’t even receive phone books anymore! What makes the internet simultaneously so great and so awful is its ease of use: It’s made life eminently simpler, but it’s also created a generation of people who rely on it to solve practically everything at all times of day.

We’d imagine your war stories from this month are similar to ours. Be sure to leave them in the comments or, if you’re so inclined, via Twitter with the hashtag #30DaysofGOOD. We’ll be checking both past 8 p.m. tonight, just as we always were.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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