When I received the Beg, Borrow, or Steal grant from GOOD to host a benefit spoons tournament for a local food bank, I honestly had no idea I was about to receive a crash course in event planning, social media management and self-motivation. I want to offer a few tips that I stumbled upon while planning Playing Spoons, Filling Plates that could be useful the next time you’re planning a benefit for your cause.


One last brainstorm
First off, examine your event plan for any minor details that could be changed to make an impact. The prizes for the spoons tournament were simply an afterthought until I realized that I could further our overall goal—feeding hungry people—by making a small adjustment. Instead of buying gift cards from a regular chain restaurant, I opted to buy gift cards from Pitza 42, a restaurant with a TOMS-esque business model that gives a meal to a malnourished child when a meal is bought. Can you purchase prizes or gifts for an event from nonprofits related to your cause or fair trade artisans? A last-minute brainstorm can occasionally reveal a great idea that furthers your goal.
Invite people, not bodies
Another piece of advice I would like to share is about spreading the word. Make your approach personal and provide opportunities for people to pitch in. Websites like Mightybell and Checkthis offer new ways to communicate and collaborate with family, friends and strangers who may be interested in your cause. Take the time to make each appeal unique, even if it means simply typing a recipient’s name at the beginning of a copy-and-paste message. Nothing says “I just need warm bodies to show up” like a mass message to every person in your Facebook inbox.
Keep your chin up
I would like to end by encouraging you to maintain your motivation and empathy. A few weeks ago, a cardboard box for food bank donations was placed in the hall of my University of Central Arkansas dormitory. Two packages of ramen noodles were donated before someone apparently thought the box was actually a trashcan. Others followed suit, and soon it was brimming with garbage. The lesson? Some of the students in my dorm are idiots. The lesson that can apply to you? There are many people who are more than willing to give nothing—the garbage in the donation box. Take pride in your ability to care and find people who foster a similar passion.
Photo via Flickr (cc) user stevendepolo.
  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
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    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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