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When I first decided to tell the story of my own sexual assault through making and bringing my film The Line to college campuses—and engage viewers in a discussion on consent, and what qualifies “rape” and “assault,” I was nervous that I would be judged for being so open and blamed for what had happened to me. However, the result has been overwhelmingly positive—after screenings and discussions, many students have come up to me to share their personal stories, including what “the line” means to them as an idea, giving me a new lens into rape culture that I could have never previously imagined.
So, when a colleague pinged me on Twitter to tell me about Vice President Joe Biden’s #1is2Many #AppsAgainstAbuse challenge, I jumped at the opportunity. I teamed up with engineer Christine Corbett Moran, designer and creative director Thomas Cabus, and Deb Levine of non-profit YTH to make the Circle of 6 app. Circle of 6 is an iPhone and Android app that lets the user program 6 friends into their circle with pre-programmed SMS messages on the ready, such as, “Call me, I need an interruption” or “Come pick me up, I’m in trouble.” In two easy taps, the user can alert their “circle” of their whereabouts through GPS location technology and needs through the app and get the help that they need.
Circle of 6 ended up being one of two winners of the #AppsAgainstAbuse challenge. Since its launch in March 2012, it has been downloaded more than 60,000 times in 27 different countries.

At first, we intended the app to be used by a specific demographic—college-aged women in the United States. After all, this was my specific background. However, in December when a young woman in New Delhi, India was brutally gang-raped and beaten to death while coming home from a night out at the movies, we were motivated to act. Even though she was on the other side of the world, in another country with a different culture, her story still felt so familiar—a young woman in an urban city, independent and yet vulnerable at the same time. We felt that we had to do something to show our support and solidarity.
Christine, Thomas and I hopped on a Google+ Hangout to discuss what we could do about this. In tandem, as awareness of rape and mobile tools to fight it started hitting the Indian press, our download numbers spiked by 1000 percent in India.
We knew it wouldn’t be easy to bring our anti-rape mobile app to India—after all, the original audience for the app was supposed to be American college students. Even though the story of a young woman being assaulted while coming home from a night out is familiar to many of us, the cultural circumstances and technological platforms are undeniably different in India.
After a meeting with organizers of the SayNO Unite anti-violence initiative of the UN, we were reminded of the complex reality that India has 28 states, 7 territories and 152 different languages and dialects spoken throughout the nation. How could we help the most people? Where does the need for sexual violence protection and highest demographic of smart phone users overlap the most? How could we be inclusive to people who didn’t necessarily fall into this bracket?
Eventually, we decided to specialize the app to New Delhi—this hit home as the site of the first assault, and the catalyst of the protests that rocked the nation. We launched in early April to mark Sexual Assault Awareness month, and now, we are proud to announce that India has the second highest number of downloads of Circle of 6, only after the United States. We have plans to adapt for Mexico in the works, and hope to continue to give smart phone users the opportunity to build circles of care and accountability in their communities in efforts to prevent violence.
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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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