In our weekly Hustlin’ series, we go beyond the pitying articles about recession-era youth and illuminate ways our generation is coping. The last few years may have been a rude awakening, but we’re surviving. Here’s how.

A new study on different generations’ priorities does not make Millenials look good. The report from the American Psychological Association [PDF] claims we are selfish, fame-seeking, politically disengaged, and don’t give a shit about the environment. We also want to be rich. A stunning 75 percent of Millennials said that being wealthy was very important to them, compared to 45 percent of baby boomers and 70 percent of Generation X.

Contrary to middle-aged pundits’ rants, Millennials are not inherently more selfish or materialistic than previous generations. It’s just that we are seeing the middle class vanish before our eyes. Even before the recession, we heard the message loud and clear: If you don’t want to be poor, you have to be rich.

I’m a progressive journalist with a strong belief in equality instilled by leftist middle-class parents, and even I find myself hoping I’ll be rich one day. It’s not because I care about mansions and baller outfits and luxury vacations (although having a personal masseuse and a lifetime supply of plane tickets would be nice). In the last decade, I’ve watched the cost of rent and food and health care skyrocket while wages stagnate and social safety nets erode. There are fewer and fewer middle-class role models—either you’re wealthy or you’re struggling with your bills. Especially in major cities, it seems that making six figures is the only way to ensure a comfortable existence. Of course we want to be rich; in the absence of stable middle-class jobs, what’s the alternative?

True, not every Millennial’s aspirations are shaped by the scope of income inequality and the rise of privatization—some young people are certainly blinded by the wealth of Snooki or Mark Zuckerberg. But reality TV stars and wunderkind success stories are alluring precisely because of our pervading economic reality. Even those of us who aren’t activists and know nothing about economics have been picking up clues everywhere—from our pension-free parents, our ballooning student loan statements, the foreclosure signs on our block. Half of us predict that Social Security and other safety nets will be gone by the time we need them. We’ve been told by hip-hop songs and conservative politicians alike that nobody is going to help us succeed but ourselves. It makes total sense that our generation is entrepreneurial and individualistic. Our culture has taught us that “hitting it big” is the only guaranteed way to have a satisfying life.

These are the kinds of messages that discouraged youth activism in the Bush era and caused us to turn inward—until the recession made things even worse. The silver lining of the past few years is that tough times have accelerated people’s sense of outrage, especially young people’s. In the past year, we’ve gotten angry about the status quo both in the streets and on the internet; because the APA report only includes research conducted through 2009, the Millennials surveyed were free of Occupy Wall Street influence. The dysfunction of the same system that makes us wish for wealth motivated us to flood the streets and camp in parks for the duration of last fall.

When it comes to our desire for riches, the study’s findings are already somewhat outdated. The Great Recession has and will continue to profoundly shape the course of our lives professionally, personally, and philosophically. It will force us to entertain the flip-side of fortune—the very real possibility that we won’t ever have a chance to get rich. The fantasy is still out there, but we’re slowly bringing ourselves down to earth.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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