We all seek places to live that provide the characteristics—social and physical—that we prefer. While this sounds logical, Bill Bishop writes in The Big Sort that self-selecting into neighborhoods of likeminded people with similar socio-economic standing is accelerating and harming our collective social fabric. In an increasingly urbanized nation, we’ve apparently never lived so close but been so far apart.


Much of my work as an urban planner involves documenting and sharing the role neighborhood design plays in supporting or limiting social and physical interactions. This is why I find Neighborday to be so compelling. Can one day of deliberate neighborly action—no matter how small—effectively lead to a long-term strengthening of social ties? Can it play a role in overcoming the barriers to social interaction we’ve constructed in our towns and cities? I think that that it can. To this last point we also can’t forget that there is no Neighborday without neighbors, and of course, no neighbors without neighborhoods—the places we understand conceptually but rarely define with clarity.

Urban geographers with a penchant for history tell us that neighborhoods—the most fundamental of human settlement patterns—can be mapped and measured consistently through time and across cultures. Despite the incredible variety of horizontal and vertical dimensions, 150 acres is believed to be the average size. Urbanists assert that this scale emerged as a type of “foot logic” inherent to places built before we organized our daily lives around the automobile. After decades of decline, neighborhoods featuring a range of places to live, work, shop, and play within close proximity are once again in vogue and thought to be an effective antidote to the clear economic, environmental, and social ills associated with suburban sprawl.

As noted last week, our day-to-day need for neighboring is as nebulous as ever. We can passively blame this on any combination of technology, suburban sprawl, and/or fractured family values, yet it’s within our power to take the first, simple step towards strengthening our social bonds and our neighborhoods. And no matter where you live, almost everyone can describe at least one person they consider a neighbor: the country dweller may note the people living a mile down the road; a suburbanite might identify those clustered around the same cul-de-sac; and urbanites likely consider those living on the same floor, if not the same building, as neighbors. So cross that hallway, street, or field and join me in celebrating Neighborday on April 27th. You’ll be glad you did.

Hang out with your neighbors on the last Saturday of April (a day we’re calling “Neighborday”). Click here to say you’ll Do It, and we’ll send you GOOD’s Neighborday Survival Guide and a bunch of other fun stuff.

Mike Lydon is the founding Principal of The Street Plans Collaborative and the author of The Open Streets Guide and Tactical Urbanism: Short-term Action, Long-term Change. He encourages you to trade four wheels for two.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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