Back in 1998, David Foster Wallace (working under a pseudonym) dissected the late-20th century world of pornography for Premiere magazine in an article entitled “Neither Adult Nor Entertainment.” Later published in 2005’s Consider the Lobster essay anthology as “Big Red Son,” the cheeky bit of anthropology is at turns funny, disturbing, and downright sad. In one of the story’s darker areas, Wallace recounts a string of recent suicides and breakdowns amongst pornographic actors and actresses, who have cracked under what the author sees as an increasingly predatory and extreme industry. In this context, he name-drops a little-known social service, the Protecting Adult Welfare (PAW) hotline, one of the few resources adult performers have to voice their concerns, learn about their legal protections, and seek support and guidance.


Wallace might have thought he was witnessing the apogee of porn’s dark potential. But despite a growing conversation around ethical and feminist porn in recent years, narrowing profits, niche tastes, and post-porn hiring discrimination still force many into ever more competitive, uncomfortable, and vulnerable situations. Pornography is a difficult, complex entity, and it will take years for debates on regulation and cultural expectations to play out, but these conversations will do little in the meantime for those at risk. And as conversations about the industry become more and more mainstream, the hotline Wallace points to seems like an increasingly necessary service—so why have we not heard more from them?

By the look of its very 1998 website and low public profile, you might guess that PAW died soon after Wallace’s article. But the Sherman Oaks, California-based foundation is still alive and well, working to better the lives of those involved in pornography by promoting public understanding of the field and providing basic services like counseling, financial planning, and health and human services. Just last year they partnered with the bizarre Maxim-esque satire magazine Girls and Corpses—the perfect rag for anyone with an X-rated, necrophilic sense of humor—to put on a Bare Bowling Fundraiser, a lucrative annual event featuring guest appearances by adult entertainment stars who meet up with diehard, supportive fans to…well, bowl and raise some money for the foundation’s ongoing and expanding mission.

You’d think semi-nude fundraisers would score PAW some serious attention, but perhaps these displays are just too brash to crack the mass media. Or perhaps it’s just that the founders and representatives of the foundation are a little more passionate than savvy in their crusade for a safer, and arguably sexier, porn industry. In a 2007 interview, former porn actor and director turned PAW founder and trustee Bill Margold let loose a volley of obscene images, illustrating his fears about the industry’s direction and a desire to see films where people simply have sex that isn’t derogatory, dehumanizing, or dirty. At one point in the interview, Margold drops this telling, though off-putting, gem:

“What are [extreme porn producers] going to do when someone rips apart? When so many dicks are shoved into one hole?…Eventually they’re going to deal in physical pain, and I will not tolerate that…I’m mad about that. It’s upsetting to me that people will come to see me and cry and I don’t know how to strike back.”

It’s an impassioned speech, full of humanity, and it ends with some interesting and practical ideas: creating a pornography tax and monitoring system to keep small-time predators out of the system, raising the age limit for performers to 21, bringing in more stringent drug tests. But it’s not exactly the kind of presentation that wins mass media airtime or public support.

Even if PAW doesn’t have a lot of popular visibility, the presence of mainstream porn stars and sponsorship of major studios like Wicked Pictures at their fundraising events suggests they’re at least fairly well known in the industry. And they have plans to expand their services, hoping to create a physical safe space for performers to crash and recover if they’re ever in real dire physical or mental straits—the kind of resource that might grab public attention, and within the industry, would certainly spread like wildfire.

Given the niche, edgy industry it serves, PAW is likely to remain small. But the services they provide, like a definitive shorthand guide on how to avoid regret and abuse in the porn industry (the Ten Commandments of XXX), are solid. It’s heartening to know that such a service has survived for over a decade to serve those lost amid a larger public debate. Still it would be nice if they could develop their media prowess to attract more popular attention so that all those getting involved in even the furthest and least secure fringes of the porn industry could know that such resources do exist, if ever they should need them.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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