Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know that Michael Sam recently became the first openly gay athlete to be drafted by a professional football team. Selected by the St. Louis Rams towards the end of the final round of the annual NFL draft, the event triggered shock waves through the world of professional sports and beyond—all the way up to the White House.


It is widely acknowledged that the 2013 SEC Co-Player of the Year will have an uphill battle making the Rams 53-man roster. It’s also been widely reported that it took the Rams’ front office decision-makers by surprise when Head Coach Jeff Fisher announced in the team’s draft “war room”: “Let’s go get Michael Sam!” The team had never planned to take Sam. The Rams were stacked across the defensive line (Sam’s position), and had other needs all over the field. In a world of data-driven decision-making and cool, calculated business decisions, Fisher’s act had a defiant and out-of-place dimension that has largely eluded the gaze of the media who have largely told the story through the eyes of the man affected most by the decision, Michael Sam.

But the question remains: Why did Fisher and the Rams select Sam? Obviously, the Fisher and the Rams have publically stated that the pick had nothing to do with symbolism and everything to do with football. But the facts tell a different story. The moments immediately preceding the Sam pick give a window into Fisher’s mind. The Rams owned two picks in a row—at 249 and 250—but as NFL media columnist Michael Silver reported, Fisher made it clear to team officials that he wanted Sam to get picked at 249 and Tennessee State center, Demetrius Rhaney to go at 250.

It’s an irrelevant distinction to anyone other than someone painstakingly aware of symbolism. Fisher not only didn’t want Sam to go undrafted, he didn’t want Sam to be the Rams’ last selection, for the history-making selection to be written off by naysayers as some sort of publicity stunt.

The moments immediately following Sam’s selection also give insight into Fisher’s thought process. While other coaches might’ve poo-pooed the symbolism of the occasion and refused to address anything other than Michael Sam’s performance on the field, Rams Coach Fisher seemed to embrace…nay…revel in the societal watershed.

“In a world of diversity that we live in, I’m honored to be part of this,” Fisher told reporters. He later called the event a “historic moment” on par with the team’s signing of Kenny Washington in 1946. “I don’t know if you’re aware of it,” he told reporters, “But we were the first NFL team to sign an African-American player— a year before Jackie Robinson signed the baseball contract.”

This doesn’t mean that Jeff Fisher and the Rams don’t believe that, regardless of historical significance, Michael Sam isn’t a good football player with a chance to make the Rams roster (though immediately after the draft the team signed West Texas A&M defensive lineman Ethan Westbrooks as a rookie free agent). What we should take from all of this is that Rams Head Coach Jeff Fisher distinctly, uniquely, and genuinely felt called to action in the waning moments of the NFL Draft.

Had Sam gone undrafted (which came seven picks away from happening), it would have besmirched a league that in recent years has tended to shy from the march of progress. In the midst of a head injury epidemic, a high profile bullying incident on the Miami Dolphins, and an epithetically-named Washington football franchise, Fisher’s decision to draft Sam is a tacit declaration that professional sports can’t just passively watch from the sidelines rationalizing that they only reflect societal injustices—they perpetuate them and through courageous leadership have the power to redress them. Whether inside or outside the locker room, marginalized voices will be vulnerable to the extent that leadership doesn’t take a stand.

The latest ripple from the Michael Sam story was the Oprah network’s plan to shoot a “docu-series” about his journey to the NFL, and its subsequent decision to postpone the show to avoid creating any “distractions” for Sam, the Rams, and the NFL. The irony, of course, is that football and its world of 10,000 square foot jumbotrons and gyrating half-naked women on the sideline is America’s favorite distraction. A distraction from a distraction could force all of us to have a more intimate relationship with our social universe.

As the Michael Sam story shows, not all distractions divide a team. A good distraction—artfully executed—can bring a team—not to mention, a country, together.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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