My biggest lesson of 2013 is that you really can “create your own luck”.


I started GoldieBlox just over a year ago with one simple goal: to inspire the next generation of female engineers. For over 100 years, toys like Legos and Erector sets have gotten boys interested in building and engineering. I wanted to spark this same interest in girls.

When I first started talking to people about my vision for the company, I encountered a lot of resistance. Toy industry veterans told me that “construction toys for girls don’t sell”. I was pretty dejected by their reaction until I attended a social entrepreneurship program called StartingBloc, where I learned about a concept called “creating your own luck.” Rather than sitting around, waiting for luck to come your way, you have to make it happen for yourself. Unabashedly. Setting audacious goals and truly believing they are possible – this is the first half of the battle. The second half is going out on a limb and doing whatever it takes to make them happen. This is what we did in 2013.

We began the year with an enormous challenge: we had tens of thousands of pre-ordered toys with almost no idea how we were going to produce and ship them all. Through the help of my best friend, sister and husband (our first three employees), we scrambled to figure it out. While all four of us have our superpowers, admittedly none of them are in operations. Just around that time, I received a fan email from a woman named Jan Hanson, the former VP of Operations at Cranium, who was a Kickstarter backer. She offered to give us advice. I offered her a job. As audacious as it seemed to bring someone of that caliber onto our tiny team, she believed wholeheartedly in our mission and took the leap. As our COO/CFO/Employee #5, she has been absolutely indispensible in helping us grow.

Throughout the year, we kept dreaming big. We created lists of men and women who we admired and knew would align with our mission. I would introduce myself to every “VIP” speaker at every conference I would attend with the hopes of starting a conversation that could turn into a relationship. Through this approach, GoldieBlox has benefited from the generosity and expertise of countless people—from Maxine Clark of Build-a-Bear, to Terry Langston of Pictionary.

We constantly put ourselves out there in a big way. This kind of optimism led to entering contests like Shopify’s Build-A-Business, which we ended up winning, and through this process we met many great advisors who we rely on to this day. We also entered Intuit’s Small Business, Big Game contest—and are currently one of four finalists for an ad in the SuperBowl. We had to believe we would be a real contender among the 15,000 entrants in order to get to this point— this is how working at creating your own luck makes a difference.

Of course, I can’t pretend that every dream has worked out (yet). But we never say never—and we firmly believe that every ‘no’ is actually a ‘maybe’. This is why 2014 will be another lucky year for GoldieBlox – because we will create it ourselves.

This piece is part of a series sponsored by The GAP in which members of the 2013 GOOD 100 share important lessons they learned this past calendar year. Subscribe today to GOOD Magazine and receive the 2014 GOOD 100 edition this coming Spring.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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