I’ll always remember taking my kids to Harry’s Shoes. They’d smile as they stepped up on the stool, the staff attentively taking measurements. Year after year, it was a family experience I relished. The shoe store, similar to other local places in the city, is one of many nostalgic memories of parenthood that I will carry forever.

I’ve lived in New York for most of my life now, so having a personal connection to small businesses in our community can easily get lost. Life is busy and I feel like we’ve become further removed from the people and places in our own backyards. And yet, we’re all just six degrees away from each other, right? I think there’s something to the butcher, the baker, the candle stick maker. I try to support local business owners and get to know the people that make up my neighborhood.

My charitable initiative, SixDegrees.org, has always been about connecting little actions to make a big impact. Connecting doing good to supporting small businesses seemed like a no-brainer to me, which is why I’m supporting Shift Your Shopping For Good, a movement in which hundreds of independent business owners are banding together to give back this holiday season.

With the biggest shopping period just days away, I have an extra reason to give my holiday spending to local businesses, and Shift Your Shopping For Good makes it possible so that when I do, I am also supporting nonprofits and schools making a difference in my community. With the help of Causetown, a simple giving platform for small businesses, all I have to do is mention Shift Your Shopping For Good at the register, and I can designate a portion of my purchases to the nonprofit of my choice.

A ton of cool businesses have already joined Shift Your Shopping For Good from The Big Bad Woof in Maryland, which offers eco-friendly pet supplies, to By Brooklyn, which focuses on items made exclusively in the NYC borough. Shift Your Shopping For Good makes it possible to simultaneously give to a cause close to your heart and support community development. As you think of all the gifts needed for the special people on your list, consider joining me and Shift Your Shopping For Good. If your favorite local vendors aren’t participating yet, I encourage you to be part of our grassroots effort, spread the word and invite them. Your favorite local businesses just have to visit ShiftYourShopping.org/ForGood and take a few seconds to sign up for the campaign. Click here to add it to your To-Do list.

And if that’s not enough to convince you, check out this infomercial from my friend Melvin Macon:

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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