Speaking cynically, Valentine’s Day is a holiday that encourages compulsory, conspicuous consumption in the name of love. Speaking practically, even the holiday’s haters are likely to show affection with a floral arrangement or tennis bracelet at some point down the line. Unfortunately, many of Valentine’s Day’s standard romantic gifts are produced under unethical practices. (Might we suggest a simple handmade valentine?) If you’re wedded to the holiday’s traditional offerings, here’s a guide to choosing wisely:

FLOWERS. Last year, we discussed the violent labor practices that make your romantic flower arrangement from major markets like Ecuador, Colombia, and Kenya. Flower farm workers around the world have reported sexual harassment, physical assault, rock-bottom wages, and dangerous working conditions while picking the roses in your Valentine’s Day bouquet. Luckily, select florists do offer fair trade-certified flowers: Try One World Flowers or Inbloom Group. And recently, growing attention to these unethical working conditions has encouraged major flower companies to stock more ethically-sourced offerings, as well. 1-800-Flowers’ “Planet Friendly Smile Collection” claims to offer flowers from “domestic and international flower farms that follow socially and environmentally responsible practices,” while FTD’s “Go Green Living” features fair trade-certified, “eco-friendly” bouquets. But the bulk of their business still relies on questionably-sourced flowers.


DIAMONDS. According to the United Nations, conflict diamonds “are a crucial factor in prolonging brutal wars in parts of Africa,” while “legitimate diamonds contribute to prosperity and development elsewhere on the continent.” But conflict diamonds can be difficult to distinguish from all the other cubic crystal structures in the jewelry case, and efforts by governments, regulatory bodies, and diamond traders to eliminate their sale have been limited. If you must invest in this particular gemstone, Brilliant Earth offers “conflict-free diamonds” sourced from Canada, Namibia, and Botswana.

CHOCOLATES. Last Halloween, we highlighted the major candy companies that have failed to eradicate child slave labor from their supply chains, and suggested you satisfy your sweet tooth with fair trade chocolates from companies like Sunspire, Sweet Earth, or Endangered Species Chocolate. We recently profiled the business model behind Madecasse, a Brooklyn-based chocolate company which offers improvements on the standard chocolate supply chain to offer sustainable and fairly-paid work to chocolate growers and processers in Madagascar. Head to one of their retail stores for a last-minute gift.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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