Things are easier said than done, or so the old adage goes, and we couldn’t agree more. That’s why we do The GOOD 30-Day Challenge (#30DaysofGOOD), a monthly attempt to live better. Our challenge for December? Creative microphilanthropy.


It’s easy to read the day’s news, much of it very depressing, and conclude that the best approach to philanthropy is to ask: What are the worst problems of our time, and how can I donate my money toward solving them?

As logical and tempting as that may be, this month try something different. Rather than dwelling on the world’s ills, start by asking a question that begins with your own soul. Civil rights leader and theologian Howard Thurman recommends: “Don’t ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

Many of the “secret agents” of The Secret Society for Creative Philanthropy have drawn inspiration from the things they really love doing.

Take Ethan. Like many a very funny person, Ethan’s had his share of sad times. In college, he started going to therapy and discovered that it was a great way to both deal with his depression and understand the comedic potential of the human psyche. He’s been documenting the latter in his hilarious cartoon, Murray the Nut, for awhile, but he ingeniously took it to the next level when he decided to serve the world as a creative microphilanthropist.

He drew a cartoon about why therapy is necessary, with a link to a super simple informational site about how to find a therapist in your local area. Then he bought online advertising space on gaming sites and other places where he thought there might be some folks lurking who hadn’t been exposed to therapy’s healing potential before, and he ran the cartoon.

There were click-thrus in the thousands. Who knows what kind of psychic relief Ethan’s small act of funny philanthropy might have set off?

And lest you think the thing that makes you come alive has to be professional, think again. Dena is a dedicated educator, committed to creating better, healthier schools for some of America’s poorest students in the Bronx—where she was born and raised—but she’s also a badass baker. She decided to use her money to buy the supplies for a bread-baking party, then invited over some of her favorite people and offered to teach them how to make their very own doughy goodness from scratch.

She was inspired by the idea that food brings people together, that it is a form of love and communion, summed up nicely in this quotation from feminist science fiction novelist Ursula K. LeGuin: “Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.”

So what can you remake? Whatmakes you come alive? Creative microphilanthropy is all about assessing what you’ve already got, and figuring out how to leverage it for good laughs, great eats, and maximum generosity.

Photo (cc) via Flickr user Wonderlane.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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