Things are easier said than done, or so the old adage goes, and we couldn’t agree more. That’s why we do The GOOD 30-Day Challenge (#30DaysofGOOD), a monthly attempt to live better. Our challenge for December? Creative microphilanthropy.

Believe it or not, philanthropy’s etymological roots are not actually focused on finances. The word, which literally means “the love of humanity,” was coined 2,500 years ago by Greek playwright Aeschylus. In one of his plays, the character Prometheus gives two gifts to a group of people living in dank caves: fire and optimism.


We’re not advocating you go out and build a fire in Union Square, although, on second thought, urban s’more-making sounds delicious. That’s exactly the point. Creative microphilanthropy is all about thinking about things that you love, things that give you a sense of optimism about the state of the world, and bestowing them on others.

For examples of how to give away $30 this month as part of our GOOD Challenge, this week we look to the “secret agents” of The Secret Society for Creative Philanthropy. Here are three inspiring ideas:

1. Comfort food for all. Ellen really likes lasagna. Who doesn’t, right? Which is why she took her money, bought ingredients, made massive, steaming vats of gooey lasagna, and then passed slices out on the chilly city streets. Exhibit A:

2. Music lessons. John loves jamming on his blues harp after a long day at the architectural office. He decided to take his money, buy a few beginner harmonicas, and offer them to homeless folks along with a mini-lesson. Not only did he give the gift of music, but he started a few people down the path of having a new skill. And what’s better, he was able to have an exchange with some people who were struggling economically that had nothing to do with money.

3. Bookmark it. Hsing is super into books. She even has her own personal lending library, so it’s no wonder that she decided to take her cash and tuck it into her favorite books in bookstores, along with little notes imploring people to follow up with her. Exhibit B:

A full six months later, Hsing got this note back:

My name is Eli. A few months ago, my girlfriend bought the book, 1000 Places To See Before You Die, as a gift for me. Imagine her surprise when she got home and found your note and gift hidden in the pages!

We were so thrilled by the kind gesture and good fortune, and are making plans to see the world together. Your gift came at just the right time for me and us. It’s something we’ll always remember as we tear through the pages of the book and corners of the globe.

So what’s something that lights you up, makes you genuinely giddy, or just plain amuses the hell out of you? And can you give that gift to someone else this month? You never know–it might come at just the right time.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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