First, you have to live in Canada. Our neighbors to the north live in one of the few places in the world where citizens can take the initiative to help refugees move directly into their country. Even though the Unites States relocates more refugees every year than all other nations combined, Americans can’t choose individuals they’d like to help out. Which is why it’s a good thing Samy bumped into William.

William David Ritchie met Samy at the same place I did, at the Thai restaurant in Mae Sot where Samy works part time. He had traveled to Thailand to try to track down the family members of some Karen refugees he’d already helped resettle in Calgary. The Karen people are a persecuted ethnic minority in Myanmar, and they comprise the majority of refugees in the camp where Samy lives. Before William left for home, he offered to add Samy to the list of people he was helping to apply for resettlement in Canada.

Ritchie hails from Calgary, and has long been involved in refugee and immigration affairs. He’s studied refugee policy and law, and is an active player in refugee resettlement operations in Calgary. Basically, he’s in a way better position to help Samy than I am.

Samy put us in touch, and I’ve been keeping up the best I can with Ritchie’s progress up north via email. When I called Ritchie in Calgary for the first time one Sunday evening, the voice that answered was archetypically Canadian: helpful, kind, and soft-spoken. He told me a little more about how the process works, and how, exactly he hopes to get Samy out of Burma.

First, he tells me that he’s formed what’s called a “Group of 5” to arrange for the resettlement of the Burmese refugees, including Samy. That’s the first step in pursuing private sponsorship in Canada:

“We decide we want to help these people, and help them settle into the country,” Ritchie says.

This Group of 5—five or more friends and colleagues working together to help—chooses individual refugees, or other persons of humanitarian concern, and essentially sets out to prove to the federal government that they need to be resettled in Canada, and that the Group is capable of helping them do so.

“A Group of 5 is typically either a church group or a group of friends who have gotten together to help,” Ritchie says. The government requires that the group build a case for the resettlement hopefuls, and acquire admissions applications directly from the refugees. They then need to detail a settlement plan— where and how they will work and live—and prove that they can provide $10,000 for each of the refugee applicants to cover the refugees’ needs as they acclimate to the country. The amount required up front can be reduced if the group partners with an NGO or another group, such as the East Kootenay Friends of Burma, which Ritchie has teamed up with.


As I write this, Ritchie is finalizing the application for Samy and four Karen refugees—he may even be done. It’s a complex and intricate process, and he wants to make sure that it’s in top shape before they turn it in.

“We want to have all the history, applications, information on the individual, how come they had to leave their countries, the ‘chickety-boo’ so to speak, before we submit it to the immigration department, so they have the largest chance to be accepted.”

Once all the paperwork’s been filed, there’s still a long ways to go, however—the applications must be processed and approved. That includes a Canadian immigration official making a trip out to the refugee camps to interview the candidate—something that likely won’t happen for at least a year, Ritchie says. And hangups are prone to occur at any point along the bureaucratic pathway, just like anywhere else; which is why I’m going to keep trying to get Samy into the United States, and help Ritchie if I can—who knows? There may be some unique opportunities for cross-border cooperation. After all, the odds are still against Samy, even considering Canada’s more progressive system.

And Ritchie, well acquainted with the difficulties and frustrations inherent in this long process, keeps his head up. “I’m optimistic,” he told me, “things are moving forward.”

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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