Recession? What recession? The National Retail Federation estimated that as many as 152 million people braved wild crowds to shop on Black Friday yesterday, 14 million people more than in 2010. They battled early morning crowds (and occasional outbreaks of violence) in hopes of finding the perfect gifts at the perfect cost. Research shows that Americans’ spending has increased over the past few decades as people literally try to buy happiness. Unsurprisingly, it’s not working.


“[Shopping] is like a drug,” says James Roberts, a marketing professor at Baylor University. “Our brains releases chemicals like dopamine and serotonin which actually produce feelings of pleasure, and we can become addicted to those feelings. But money and material possessions will not bring you happiness, and not only that, they can cause more harm than good.”

In Roberts’ new book, Shiny Objects: Why We Spend Money We Don’t Have in Search of Happiness We Can’t Buy, he explores the psyche of spending and ways of curbing our nation’s collective bad habits. According to the General Social Survey, people report the same level of happiness today (about half are “pretty happy”) as they did in 1972, even though our national spending per capita increased by 96 percent during that time. More people say they are stressed, anxious, and depressed today, too. Roberts says many national problems come back to our nation’s attitude toward material possessions.

“Our spending is a reflection of our increased materialism,” Roberts says. “When we are materialistic our priorities become possessions and not people. What I don’t think people understand is that the impact of materialism goes well beyond just our pocketbook.”

Roberts’ book explains that human beings are hardwired to prefer short-term rewards over long-term ones. That ingrained attitude combined with our nation’s increasing focus on the importance of stuff as a national value is a recipe for disaster, he says. “We as human beings have the tendency to compare ourselves, and that used to be called ‘keeping up with the Joneses,’” Roberts says. “Back in the 1960s that was okay, but now it’s keeping up with the Gateses.”

Today, one in three people are poor or “near-poor,” and though our average savings has increased slightly since the recession officially ended, Roberts doesn’t have much hope that the economic downturn will change people’s habits. “In every recession, people tighten their belts when the recession hits, but then as soon as there’s sunshine on the horizon we go back to our spending ways,” he says. “We end up after the recession at a higher spending rate than we were at previously because we feel like we have to make up for lost time.”

Roberts emphasizes that he’s not advocating cutting out discretionary spending altogether. “Money within reason can make you happy,” Roberts says. “Spending money on others or vacations with family and friends will bring you happiness, but a mad rush to spend will only get you another day older and deeper in debt.”

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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