Kirsten Lodal has a story to tell you. It’s the story of 46 million Americans who live below the poverty line, the courage and conviction that it takes to dig one’s way out of hardship, and how, but for a single catastrophic event, anyone could find themselves in need.
As a sophomore at Yale, Lodal co-founded LIFT, an organization that takes a holistic, comprehensive approach to dealing with disadvantage, working with one family at a time to address all of the interconnected factors that keep good people down. Volunteers work one-on-one with clients to secure housing, employment, and basic necessities.
“Poverty in America is complex and ever-growing; nearly half of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck,” Lodal says. “Yet to date, this issue has failed to mobilize the talent, resources, and most importantly, the ingenuity required to solve it. LIFT believes that this failure is largely due to a public misconception of poverty.”
LIFT will soon be launching a national storytelling campaign, hoping to correct the popular myths and stereotypes about poverty, why it exists, and whom it affects. The organization is also working on some starter ideas to pilot later this year, including everything from a LIFTopolis Hackathon to an “It Gets Better”-esque campaign focusing on crowd-sourced stories of vulnerable moments.
With programs in Boston, New York City, Los Angeles, Chicago, Washington DC and Philadelphia, one of LIFT’s main messages is that the poor and the rest of us need the same things to weather crisis, Lodal says.
“The problem is that we’ve built a system to serve poor families that is completely disconnected from the systems we’ve built to support middle and upper income families,” she says. “Too often we focus solely on the economic resources poor families need, and in doing so, we only offer up one of three critical legs of support, support that most of us take for granted.”
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Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.
“A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”
His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.
Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.
So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”
The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.
Any chance your wife is pregnant?
ZZBC | Reddit
The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!
“The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”
Redditors responded with similar experiences.
Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.
realityisworse | Reddit
So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?
Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”
The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.
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While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.
When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.