It’s seductive. Jagged, vertiginous peaks nestle arced beaches that wash up at the feet of bronzed deities. Electric percussion vibrates the balmy night air, rippling in your cachaça, lime, and sugar cocktail. I couldn’t help but be mesmerized when I first visited Rio de Janeiro. No city landscape is so dramatic, no culture so effervescent.


But, the hypnosis waned when my gringo bubble of sightseeing and hostels teeming with partying foreigners became impermeable. Even though I had learned Portuguese to survive in an English-less country, I was missing so much. I longed to be a part of the culture and meaningfully bond with Brazilians, so I resolved to return.

The next time I had to stray beyond Copacabana to stumble upon what I sought—and it was in the least likely place. The color-dotted hillside of 300,000 inhabitants jutted out at me, overwhelming and intimidating. There was Rocinha, Latin America’s largest favela, an originally informal settlement that has transformed into a bustling community.

I wasn’t ignorant of the violent and poor reputation favelas have from “City of God,” “Elite Squad,” and other media. In fact, I’d swiftly rejected an invitation to Rocinha during my initial trip to Rio. Quickly, I realized my mistake during the two-minute motorcycle taxi ride into the favela. The energy inside was palpable. Baile funk music thumped from apartment windows; savory feijoada stew aromas wafted into my nostrils; graffiti painted a history of resilience.

Meeting Zezinho, my contact in Rocinha, fascinated me as he explained how his Favela Adventures shows visitors favela reality through the eyes of local guides while investing its profits in a free, DJ school for favela youth. The $20,000 of top-of-the-line equipment used nightly by groups of young adults in the bedroom of his tiny apartment was transparent proof of his impact. Surprising was that the model was so uncharacteristic of what I’d read about favela tours, usually framed as “poverty safaris” run by outsiders with little benefit for the communities.

I kept coming back, getting as much favela as I could, a futile pursuit in the sprawling labyrinth of alleys and stairs leading to cramped shops and bars. Moreover, sharing a home for weeks with residents, I felt safe and welcomed amid a sense of togetherness and constant activity on the streets. Certain the favelas were the real Rio, I wanted the world to experience their vibrancy, yet in a socially responsible way.

Shortly thereafter, I created Favela Experience to offer travelers homestays and apartment rentals in Rocinha and other favelas. As a social enterprise, our mission is to immerse guests in local culture while generating livelihoods for favela residents and breaking pernicious stereotypes. In a year, we’ve hosted dozens of travelers, earning excellent reviews and profiles in Forbes and The New York Times.

Now, with the FIFA World Cup approaching in June, we have the chance to leave a positive mark on an event notorious for its negative social legacy. Only through our Indiegogo crowdfunding campaign until noon Pacific Time this Saturday, February 1, you can book our World Cup accommodations at a 20 percent discount or secure another one of our rewards. With more funding we can expand our housing inventory for the tournament and generate months of income for more favela hosts. Ultimately, your backing brings us closer to our vision for more meaningful travel that develops communities.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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