Last week, I joined more than 3 million other Americans in an annual ritual of pomp, excess, and overwhelming boredom. It wasn’t 20 minutes into the Oscars before I wanted out. However, as I sat there, it occurred to me that maybe somewhere buried in between the ridiculous dresses and the stifling self-importance there were some lessons to be learned for the aspiring entrepreneur.

The Uselessness of Yes Men

Did you watch the Red Carpet Oscars Preview? If so, I’m sorry. We were treated to the interview stylings of Kathy Ireland. And while I certainly wasn’t expecting gotcha journalism in that setting, the utter fawniness of the whole thing was absurd. All this is to say: When you’re choosing your team, forget the people who tell you how great you are. They won’t help you find flaws in your ideas, they won’t bring anything to the table, and, like the “reporters” on the red carpet, they’ll leave you with a sub-par production.

Putting The Right Face Forward

What’s the most memorable element of an awards show? The host. Think about it. You might remember that Chris Rock was funny when he hosted, but you probably can’t recall who won Best Actress that year. People loved Billy Crystal, so those Oscars were “good.” Many thought Jon Stewart struggled, so those were less of a hit. The lesson? Every organization needs a face. You might have the world’s best idea. But if you’re not good with press, you’re not a good presenter, or you’re not a strong writer, you will need to find someone who is or it’s going to be awfully hard to get others on board.

Reputation Matters

Even though Avatar didn’t win, it’s still the highest-grossing movie of all time, and the only reason it got made is because James Cameron is James Cameron. Imagine trying to pitch that movie: “Okay, guys, check this out: It’s gonna be full of blue people, the acting is going to suck, and the plot is totally clichéd. And oh yeah…. It’s gonna cost $300 million. When can we start?”

Businesses are a lot like movies in the sense that pedigree can have a profound affect. If you or someone on your team has a track record of success, it will be easier to find investors, partners, service providers, etc. With this in mind, it’s not a shock that many founders are serial entrepreneurs who bounce from one idea to another.

That Said, It’s Not Everything

Having a reputation helps, but it’s not the only way to succeed. The biggest “lock” for the awards was that Christoph Waltz was going to win Best Supporting Actor. A year ago, nobody knew this guy. He’s not particularly famous. Heck, I just had to spell-check his name. But he put forth such a captivating performance that everyone had to take note.

So what if you don’t have a seasoned entrepreneur on board. That’s no reason not to pursue an idea. It doesn’t matter if no one’s ever heard of you. If an idea’s good enough, you’ve got a chance. You just need to get people to believe in it-and in you. As with Waltz, all you need is one good showing to rocket you into the big time.

The Takeaway: No matter what situation you’re in, there are always lessons to be gleaned. Success is success, no matter the industry. By paying attention to what makes certain people thrive (and others fall short), you might be able to pick up a trick or two.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Photo credit: CanvaDogs have impressive observational powers.

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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