Part of the assumption in this month’s GOOD challenge to unplug at 8 is that we’re robbing ourselves of valuable human contact when we’re online. But if plugging in lets us add social experiences to otherwise-solo pursuits, it might change the equation.


That’s the idea behind a wave of apps that are designed to take your solo media consumption—whether television shows, movies, books or music—and let you tell your friends all about it. And if you’re catching a TV show at home on a weeknight, why not use the Internet to rope in some geographically dispersed pals?

Services including GetGlue, SocialGuide, Miso, and Tunerfish, among several others, allow people to use their computers, tablets and phones to check-in, foursquare style, to their entertainment of choice, then rate it.

Users’ choices and ratings are broadcast to friends gleaned from Facebook and Twitter and recorded in the app’s database. All that data is leveraged to provide personalized recommendations, as well as analytics about who’s watching what where and when to each firm’s partners.

But do such services really a rewarding social experience, akin to getting your friends together to watch a show in the same room?

Limited GetGlue exposure suggests the product doesn’t make the real-time viewing experience all that more robust. While founder Alex Iskold tells GOOD he hoped to create “a digital water cooler” for the site’s 1.4 million and growing users, most viewers who check in to a show only offer the occasional commentary, nothing like the kind of conversation you’d have in your living room, or even on Twitter.

(Samples from an episode of Ellen DeGeneres show: “Snooki gets scared by a giant poof,” “pouf!”, “giant poof”; samples from Nickelodeon classic Doug: “porkchop,” “porkchop!” “I love porkchop.”; samples from HBO’s Entourage “can’t believe it’s the last season….,” “ari gold,” “This season just keeps getting better.”)

The personalized recommendations and organized way to see what your friends are into certainly offers a good way to expand your media diet in pleasant directions. Still, the services can’t compete with the old fashioned “come over and watch Jersey Shore with me” model of social TV, except as a useful kind of a notification service—”hey, Amina’s watching Jersey Shore, too, I should Gchat her about Snooki’s poof.”

“If I check in and say I’m watching Game of Thrones, that’s a social gesture, it’s very friendly,” Iskold says. “If you’re my friend and see that I’ve checked in, you have a positive response and start a conversation about the show. It’s good for the brand because it’s a promotion of the show.”

GetGlue has been working with content producers to help provide incentives for folks to check in and watch shows when they air, generally in the form of “stickers”—online badges that also are sent to users in real life—and various promotions, like one with the show Fringe that let viewers win real props from the set when the show was in danger of cancellation.

For cult or up-and-coming shows, GetGlue can provide a voice for fans trying to convince networks there’s real interest in their product, and vice versa. Rabid Doctor Who fans (are there any other kind?) convinced the BBC to partner with GetGlue by demanding more ways to socialize around the show.

The ultimate goal of GetGlue and its competitors is to drive advertising to the so-called second screen—whatever device you have in your hand or on your lap while you’re watching the show. If Pizza Hut is advertising during an episode of Parks & Rec, you might get a coupon for a P’Zone on your iPad if you check in. That’s a win-win for content producers and advertisers, even if targeted ads like that set off your privacy alarms.

If the socializing aspect seems neglected compared to the recommendations, analytics, and ads, that’s partially because the technology hasn’t caught up yet.

The model social-media-watching experience, so far, comes from Google+’s hangout feature, which lets video-chatting pals pull up YouTube videos to watch together and talk about in real-time, but even that limited to whatever users post. Anyone’s who’s killed an hour or three on YouTube knows there’s a lot there, but it’s not quite the same as streaming a movie on Netflix or catching the premiere of the next season of Survivor with your friends.

If you’re looking to add some human experience to your TV diet while still plugging in, your best bet might be to fire up Skype or Google+ and just vid-chat while the show’s on—that’s the best solution for those of us trying to catch Airwolf on Hulu with friends across the continent.

Otherwise, resign yourself to the fact that if you want to watch TV with your friends, you’ll have to actually hang out with them.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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