When Mo Gelber, an aspiring photojournalist, found himself in the right place at the right timeNew York Central Bookinghe captured the last moments between two lovers before being separated and charged with graffiti-related violations. With his shot Gelber entered a contest, which would turn a winning image into a film. But when Gelber realized he needed consent from the unknown couple, he spent a frenzied attempt via Facebook to find them. The story caught the media’s attention, yet no one seemed to get the facts right. Saturday was the deadline to get the couple’s sign off, and yesterday, as the winners of the contest were be made public, Gelber let us in on what really happened with the “last kiss.”


GOOD: How did you end up capturing this now infamous shot?
MO GELBER: Since I started getting serious about photography four years ago, I have a camera with me wherever I go. That day, on August 16, I was working at my day job as an audio engineer. I was walking past the courthouse and I saw a group of reporters: every local station had a camera there. I didn’t even know why they were there. I just joined in with them. They were waiting to get a shot of Anna Christina, a woman accused of running a prostitution ring out of her house. While this was going on I saw these two cops leading a couple toward the entrance to Central Booking. I thought that was more interesting than this defendant. So I turned my camera toward them because I saw them leaning in, about to have a last kiss before being separated and thrown into jail.
I had about two seconds from when I saw what was about to happen to get my camera in line and properly exposed. When they walked past me I asked the guy what he was arrested for. He said he was accused of writing on other people’s stuff.
GOOD: Then you entered a photo contest with the image?
MO GELBER: Yes, I entered a contest called “Project Imaginat10n,” a collaboration between director Ron Howard and Canon Camera Company. They called me a few days ago and said that a group of judges picked my photo along with nine or ten others as potential finalists. Then they gave me until this past Saturday at 5 pm to submit release forms signed by all four people in the photo.
GOOD: Did you have any idea who the couple was?
MO GELBER: No, I had no idea who the two people were and I didn’t know the cops. That’s when I went into a panic. I turned to my Facebook friends, posted on my wall and said, ‘If anyone knows who these people are, please have them get in contact with me.’ Brandon Stanton of the popular photo blog Humans of New York saw it. He has a quarter of a million viewers on his page and he posted the photo. Four hours later the girl in the photo, Alexis Creque [28] contacted me. She said that her and her boyfriend Russell Murphy [26] saw the photo. They wanted to do whatever they could to help me get in the contest, which meant signing the release.
It was a whole other story trying to find the two cops. I was able zoom into their badges and read their names, but facing the NYPD’s beurocracy and finding out where they work…but the police department was actually very cooperative. They tracked down the two officers. One of them was in Virginia on vacation, but she faxed back a copy of the form from her hotel. It was totally awesome.
[The couple] have an attorney since they are being tried in a criminal case. She contacted me and was very nice. Even though the photo was damaging because it publicized that they were accused of a crime, they wanted to help. The problem was the language in the release form was a little vague. It said that if one of the subjects in the photo signed the release, for the rest of their lives Canon, or any representatives of the contest or the film that would be made could only photograph them. So their lawyers said they could give permission for this photo to be shown, but you can’t hold somebody hostage for the rest of their lives and say you can’t ever get a modeling job anywhere or we’ll sue you.
We had a conference call seven minutes before the deadline. We tried to work it out but the lawyers at Canon wouldn’t budge. Ultimately we couldn’t come to an agreement on time and the photo was disqualified from being a finalist.
GOOD: It seems like you received more press for the whole story than if you won the contest?
MO GELBER: Yes, I got so much publicity over this. I’m hoping that an editor of a newspaper will see it and will come to my Facebook page and look at some of my work and give me a shot.
GOOD: Some earlier reports said that you couldn’t find the guy in jail, some said he wouldn’t sign the release, some said the girlfriend wouldn’t give you his name. How did you feel about reading so many different versions of the “facts”?
MO GELBER: I learned two things from this experience. First is that you have to be very careful what you tell the media, even when you say, “Please keep this off the record.” You should know not to believe everything you read in the newspapers and they’re going to write whatever they want to write. They’re going for sensationalism; they want to sell papers; and the only way to do that is with drama.
The next thing that I learned is that I should carry some blank release forms in my camera bag so that the next time I get a great shot like that I don’t have to go on a wild goose chase.
GOOD: Is the couple still together?
MO GELBER: As far as I know the couple is together. I’ve never met them but I would like to. I’ve already printed two copies of the photo that I want to give them as gifts. They have a lot on their plate right now, but when they’re ready I would love to sit down and have dinner
I’ll pay for it.
Photo courtesy of Mo Gelber
  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
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    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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