Remember sitting in front of the tube, munching Goldfish, as that nice man in the cardigan asked, “Won’t you be my neighbor?” Even at a tender age, you were learning what it means to be a nice, caring member of your community. It’s never too early to help kids along the path to good citizenship, and Neighborday is a chance to include the littlest members of your community.

By happy coincidence, Neighborday coincides with Global Youth Service Day, when kids and their adult mentors in more than 100 countries and all 50 states will make a big difference in their communities. In Atlanta, 14-year-old Evan is leading 20 volunteers in building the area’s first Braille trails, so that the visually-impaired can more fully experience nature. In Austin, 3rd graders studying local hunger issues have partnered with a local food bank to advocate at the State Capitol and encourage elected officials to remember those in need. In Colombia, more than 1,000 children will exchange notes of hope and peace with their U.S. counterparts.


These kids inspire us to do better and be better, so celebrate Neighborday and Global Youth Service Day (who doesn’t love a two-for-one deal?!) by intentionally connecting with young people. Here are some tips to get started.

1. Party! If you’re planning a neighborhood block party, help kids have a stake in the event by asking them to bring dessert, make the decorations or plan a music set list. Gather for a picnic or BBQ, a pizza or ice-cream party… and take the time to share the good work you did on Neighborday too.

2. Kids ask so many questions. So why not ask them a few? Are the kids in your neighborhood in love with animals, the environment, Justin Bieber? What can they do to connect their interests with the community? Just by engaging in a real conversation, adults can help kids to identify the things they care about in their community, and then connecting them with volunteer projects that play to their strengths and interests.

3. The more the merrier! Already planning a Neighborday activity? Invite kids! Remember to provide activities and beverages that will appeal to the under 21 set (sparkling cider, anyone?).

4. Mind your manners. Grown-ups are always reminding kids to say please and thank you. On Neighborday, remember to thank the kids in your life for all that they do. Recognition and appreciation build esteem and connections.

5. Many hands make light work. Join in a Global Youth Service Day/Neighborday project in your area. You can find a nonprofit or community group in your neighborhood to volunteer with here. Double count it for Neighborday! Search the GYSD Map at www.GYSD.org/map to see if there’s a project near you.

6. Service in a Snap. Create your own easy-to-do project. Help kids set up a bake sale to benefit the No Kid Hungry Campaign, or a lemonade stand to raise money for the local community center. Find more simple service ideas and resources at https://www.gysd.org/easyprojectideas.

7. You get a gold star! Give kids who participate in Global Youth Service Day/Neighborday a certificate, a prize, an award or a big round of applause.

Hang out with your neighbors on the last Saturday of April (a day we’re calling “Neighborday”). Click here to say you’ll Do It, and here to download GOOD’s Neighborday Toolkit and a bunch of other fun stuff.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

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    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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