I’d like to think I’m good at challenging the status quo. To get regular reality checks, I spend time with college kids creating for-profit and not-for-profit businesses aimed at solving wicked problems. They truly challenge the status quo and it is, fortunately, invigoratingly contagious.


Sometimes (most of the time?), the status quo is so deeply engrained we don’t realize it – so deeply inherent in our worldview that when confronted with it, we view questioning it as heretical. I think the academic and business artificial distinction between the Arts and Sciences is a classic example of not asking Why. (Yes, really it’s more like Arts or Sciences). This distinction permeates so much of our culture and lasts way beyond college. As students graduate and go into the world, they maintain this lie of Arts or Sciences. This is a powerfully and dangerously false dichotomy.

At a very basic level, go back to your college education. There were art classes (humanities included) and sciences. But, when you were learning about microbes, molecules, trajectory, anatomy, etc…. did you learn through looking at pictures? Isn’t Gray’s Anatomy a fabulous art and anatomy book? Think of surgical simulator applications? Very visual, very artistic and definitely design-oriented to make it easy for the user to follow and learn. Recently, a friend of mine wrote a great post on the Art of Science. He was a biology major in college, with a passion for nature since childhood. He’s been a fisheries biologist, environmental scientist and worked on robotics projects…and artist. You can find his fabulous artwork here. Art and Science require common mindset traits: astute observation, sense-making, curiosity, questioning, experimentation, iteration, and many more.

Imagine what can happen when you start asking Why we separate Art and Science! Fortunately we are seeing the results of this questioning. The arts and sciences are putting the “A” of Art into STEM (Science Technology Engineering Math) to make STEAM. Blessedly, I’m in the midst of a lot of STEAM activity and see the power of the AND. These AND solutions are creating products and services for people all over the world based on science and design so that the product meets a real need by real people that they will really use every day instead of some theoretical idealistic solution everyone oohs and aahhs over and never uses.

My husband tells me I ask Why too often. Why is how we learn, discover, and challenge the Status Quo. In one of my first projects at Bell Labs, I was the system engineer on three different messaging services. Why did I have to create three different architectures for three different messaging services? Ok, the media were different (voice, text, image) but simply tagging the media type in a header all the services understood meant one architecture, shared messages, and media conversion as necessary. Voila! Done and on to the next project. Result? Big revenues for AT&T and my patent on a plaque for me.

Even the age-old theory of right-left brain (art and science) is being questioned. So, as you look at your world, as you evaluate the choices you make, either by covert or overt assumptions, ask Why? There very well could be a great reason, or it may be an artifact of history. Kids ask Why all the time and we expect that from them. At some point, it seems we stop questioning and expecting Whys. When we stop asking Why, we risk the Status Quo becoming so entrenched that we accept it as the way it Has to be and can Only be. So, this next week, try to ask Why just two times a day – give it a whirl and see what happens.

Image courtesy of Sarah Shreves.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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