I arrived at St. Jacobi church, the Occupy Sandy headquarters a few blocks down from our place in Brooklyn, with a strong sense of skepticism.


Occupy isn’t something I ever really got on board with. I saw the Zuccotti park thing as a cheap throwback to my parents’ generation. I was pretty damned jaded about the whole thing.

My opinion changed in a hot minute when I entered St. Jacobi’s church. Things were happening. Donations of all kinds were coming through the door and being sorted. A dispatch crew was lining up volunteer cars to ship food and supplies to affected areas. The sense of urgency and focus was very real.

After volunteering at Occupy Sandy for five days, I realized that the vibe and work ethos was eerily familiar to me. Where had I felt this same sense of free flowing productivity and collaboration? And then it hit me: For a hyper-socialist organization, Occupy Sandy is run a hell of a lot like a tech startup.

It’s not about who’s in charge, it’s about making shit happen.

At our startup, Backspaces, there are only three of us. And while our skill sets dovetail nicely, no one person is in charge. We just share a common goal of making Backspaces great. This means conversations are inherently horizontal and goal-oriented. At St. Jacobi, people were able to show up and get to work almost immediately wherever they were needed.

“Looking for something to do?” a volunteer asked. “We need about 400 PB&Js ready for Red Hook in about an hour.”

Meanwhile, a U-Haul from Maryland had arrived, packed to the brim with supplies. “We need a conga line to get these boxes in the church,” another volunteer shouted. A dozen people instantly formed and began unloading the truck. The formality of management just isn’t necessary at this level when the goals are so clear and everyone is on the same page.

Identify what’s important right now, because that’s all that matters.

There are only so many hours in the day, but there seem to be an infinite number of things to be done. The damage from Sandy has been unbelievable, and so, at St. Jacobi, there are constantly new urgent issues and tasks popping up left and right. Leadership (not management) has to help parse all this and act on what is most important right now. One thing Occupy did very quickly was get their Facebook and Twitter accounts set up, creating a strong broadcasting tool for those looking for information, like myself. At St. Jacobi, there were often times where people were made to hang out before being sent off to the Rockaways or Staten Island. On the surface, this seemed like wasting time, but in reality, they were able to effectively route the right type of supplies to the right places by making sure their information was correct.

People working together is the only way things happen.

Very early on, I learned that in startups, the only way to progress is to work together effectively. The volunteer effort reveals just how true that is. Tens of thousands of people have responded to the Sandy Relief effort offering their time, money, and suplies. In the best case, everyone wants everyone else to succeed. In the case of Occupy Sandy, it’s an obvious reality that the end results are more important than who’s right or who’s wrong. People are happy to step in and contribute. Occupy Sandy has done a great job of instilling that peer network mentality: We are all in this together; everyone is helping everyone.

The big picture is what defines success.

It will be a long time before we totally recover from Sandy. Some families will never fully recover. That’s a reality that is difficult to stomach, especially when you’ve been volunteering. There were a few times out there that I personally got frustrated and felt that my contribution wasn’t big enough. But, just like working on a startup, the real work that creates progress is always going to feel like a grind. Every day, the head organizers at Occupy Sandy are counting up supplies at St. Jacobi, gather information about needs in the affected areas, and rounding up cars to deliver the goods.

There’s a long long way to go. We’ve started to see more volunteer stories on Backspaces, in part I think because people need to share their experience with friends and family, but also because it’s important to reflect on what you’ve helped accomplished. It’s very easy to get stuck in the minutiae of any task or project and forget what you’re doing it for, or why it’s important. Occupy Sandy has helped create a culture of urgency, care, and passion to help combat Sandy. They’ve done it with very little resources of their own, a non-traditional infrastructure, and a relentless zeal for helping people. That’s a recipe for success most startups would do well to imitate.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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