“So you’re a Rutgers student? A student with no real life experience who wants to be on a school board?”

My name is Stephanie Rivera. I am a 21-year-old junior at Rutgers University and that’s the reaction I hear from critics of my candidacy for New Brunswick, New Jersey’s Board of Education. For over 20 years, our school board was appointed by the mayor rather than elected by community members. Then this past November New Brunswick community members tirelessly campaigned in support of a referendum to change the school board to an elected one. This is the first year where the community has a voice in deciding who controls their schools.


I am a child of an immigrant, so the culture I grew up with was one of obeying authority. I was rarely encouraged to share my opinion, or voice any position that might be controversial. Politics was not talked about in my house. All my life I believed the world of government was reserved for white, wealthy men who’d graduated from Ivy League schools. In no way did I ever see myself, a young, 4’11” Filipino woman, fitting into this mold.

Never did I think former U.S. Assistant of Secretary of Education, Diane Ravitch, would say, “I would vote for Stephanie if I lived in her town.”

Never did I think my voice had the power to change things.

All that changed after my sophomore year of college when I discovered the severity of the inequalities in our education system. I decided to create a blog to bring attention to these issues; Not only did I find my voice, but found what other young voices are capable of doing. This past winter, I received a phone call from a friend who’d heard about me through my blog. He mentioned that there has been talk among him and fellow Rutgers students about how, given my involvement with New Brunswick youth, commitment to education justice, my overall perspective and the ideas I have to offer to the New Brunswick public schools, I should consider running for the school board.

With serious consideration of what this meant—making a three year commitment, balancing finishing my senior year and being a public official, not being able to teach at New Brunswick High School after I earn my teaching degree, and being subject to constant criticism—in February I handed in my petition to officially be a candidate.

I am running because I want to ensure someone on the board is there to be a voice for the community, parents, and New Brunswick’s youth. I want to make sure someone on the board is not only fighting for the community, but is an ally working with the community.

I am running because today’s youth need to know we cannot underestimate what we are capable of. We must challenge all the lack of faith in us and the odds against us. If you have a vision, and truly believe inside your gut, heart, and mind that you are capable of doing something others can’t think you can do—you must do it.

Yes, I am only 21-years-old. Yes, I am still a college student who has a lot left to learn. But does this mean my volunteer work with students inside the New Brunswick schools—working with the actual students affected by the board’s decisions—doesn’t matter? And why does being a student—who is going to school to become a teacher—automatically equal not being knowledgeable about education policy?

There is no set age at where we can begin making solid, positive changes in our communities, and in this world. We must dismantle society’s established norms, or they will dismantle us. I would not be running for this position if I did not believe I was qualified for the job—there are already enough politicians with no real understanding of what schools need doing that already.

I have a restless drive for justice, especially for education at the K-12 level because this is a civil right, not something that should only be guaranteed to a lucky few. I want to leave this world knowing that I did everything in my power to create a more just education system. That starts with doing the work to help my own community.

Stephanie Rivera is a cofounder of Students United for Public Education and is the president and founder of Rutgers’ Future Teachers Association.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

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